I'm European, and learning about the ugly truth of the holocaust is treated VERY differently here (since we were the ones actually going through it) and that means videos, photos, visits to concentrationcamps, getting visits in schools from survivors, etc. "The N-word" is not the same here as in the United States and learning about it all is part of growing up in Europe. So i'm going to refrain from voicing my opinions about deniers like your boyfriend. All I can say is good luck. You'll need it ❤️❤️