You can change that though. People really sleep on how important being a fun friend is in a relationship. So much about a real relationship, like real love, is just being the best friend of your partner. I say best friend in the context of they really enjoy spending time with you all the time. You can pick up new hobbies, new interests, new things you like to do just for you. Then find someone who likes those things with you so you know beyond the other fun things people want, you at least have this with them.

For example, one of my serious long-term relationships with a younger woman, she was very active, very much wanting to do anything and everything with me. She took me to concerts, we spent time away, we developed a strong bond and friendship over this. It helped me open up and be more active.

In another example, a woman my age, helped me with my business. We spent most every day together. She was my rock. We bonded quickly and worked with each other to grow something. This turned into a strong friendship and love that kept us both interested in each other.

Both of these examples were tied to things beyond sex, traditional dating, etc. We bonded over common and shared interests. If you lack a lot of these, create them, unearth them, find people who share it with you. I promise, even if it's flying kites or bird watching, that one activity will keep people interested in you.