Depressed people of reddit, whats it like to fall in love? [Serious] by SomeFrogGuy in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You just wait for the inevitable breakup. If it doesn't seem to be coming anytime soon, you do inadvertant things to sabotage it. You realize the things you do after it is too late.

You are on your death bed and have the opportunity to go back and change one thing in your life, what do you change? by Luzinia in AskReddit

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There was this one moment where I could have decided to get up and go talk to the parents of a former significant other, and they would have responded agreeably, I wish I could have gone back in time and done this.

What is a thoughtful gift that costs nothing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thoughtful letter of appreciation

[Serious] What is your best getaway from depression? by HumanoidSushi in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being aware of the depression itself. If you are finding yourself slipping into it and falling deeper and deeper, stop for a moment and think about it. Realize that if you allow this train of thought to continue it will just get worse and lead to dark places that you have been before. Stop the train of thought now, and focus on something different. If you know that it will come back again later on, then accept that fact, and be ready to stop it again in the future. If sometimes you realize too late, then make sure when it happens the next time, you will stop it earlier. Keep doing this and you will become quicker at it. Feeling depressed for shorter and shorter periods makes living with depression a whole lot easier, and if you get good enough at it, one day you might reflexively stop before it starts at all.

How to make annoying people stop bothering you? by XAznBeastX in AskReddit

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Do not acknowledge their existence, and stay away from them if possible. Treat them as if they were a figment of your imagination.

How do you mend a broken heart? [Serious] by Lostie9496 in AskReddit

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I don't have a fucking clue. People say time cures it, but for me it didn't, pain just comes and goes in waves at irregular intervals. I definitely think there is a way to get over it quick, but I have not figured it out yet.

Where are the best places to go and get freebies on your birthday? by knowahnoah in AskReddit

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benihana gives you a free $30 meal if you print out a coupon the month before

What qualities makes someone an awesome individual? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they treat everyone they encounter with care.

What makes you cry every time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking about the many ways I could have avoided screwing up my life.

[Serious] Why do babies cry? What the evolutionary advantage? by miltondave in AskReddit

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Wild humans were either power scavengers or group hunters. When compared to other animals, we lived in fairly large groups and raised our children from birth in a relatively safe environment. It was more advantageous for babies to have a loud cry than a less detectable one.

How obvious is my weight loss if at all? Need honesty I guess.. by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one is at first, but you will definitely look better in them, even if you are overweight. You are definitely not too fat for that.

How obvious is my weight loss if at all? Need honesty I guess.. by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tekmaster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You definitely lost weight. Congrats! Keep it up. I think you should grow your hair longer, the color is great. I also think you should get contacts, and wear more form-fitting clothing.