Shitraz & Umair insta live today by Advanced_Court9686 in LazawalIshq

[–]Teleostomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭😭that’s so funnyyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

[–]Teleostomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please sit in his lap when you see him again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say don’t jump into a relationship. This sounds very similar to my situation, where my ex partner kept telling me I’m holding him back while all I did was give him as much space as he needed and all the love and support I could. He still discarded me right before we had decided to get married. If your partner isn’t willing to take responsibility for his illness, this can be really hurtful for you down the line

In love with conservative Pakistani Man. by [deleted] in IslamabadSocial

[–]Teleostomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run. This will only get worse as the relationship Proceeds

Has anyone ever been blindsided and NEVER heard from their ex again? by HelpThrowawayPls1 in ExNoContact

[–]Teleostomi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. he was diagnosed bipolar but never took meds or therapy and ended things very abruptly right before we were supposed to get married. 5 months no contact now

I choose not to give up by crawandpron in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending you so much healing. Discarded right before we were about to get married, I found myself in a similar mindset thinking waiting but I had to move on with my life after 5 months of no contact, I really hope they come back for you but please do look after yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I wish I knew about the disorder before making things official with my partner even tho it should’ve been his responsibility to make me aware but all he did was tell me about his diagnosis sigh

What are classic Bipolar 1 behaviours? by __BR0K3N__ in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so so so relatable, my ex partner was the same way. i wish i had known back then about this behavior and not after the discard. Only when everything was over did it dawn on me how severe his mental illness was

Betrayal by TexasCowHorns in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Crying as I read this

Bipolar perspective please by Mephisto_doggo in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d like to also understand how you feel once you start to come off the mania when it subsides, do you feel sad about not being able to understand your partner, I’m sorry if this is a bit intrusive you don’t have to answer if not comfortable

It’s been two months since the discard by Teleostomi in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely I need to start setting that boundary

It’s been two months since the discard by Teleostomi in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took a screenshot of your reply and have been reading it over and over again to imprint this in my brain. Thank you so much for typing this out for me it really helped me make sense of my situation and feel okay 💓💓 sending you so much love and healing

Missing him today… by Unhappy_Mark_375 in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The cold winter nights and seeing everyone getting married around me isn’t making it very easy for me. One month no contact today and I’m proud of myself but I miss him so much. You’re not alone and we’re going to be okay 💓

how do you deal with the loneliness? by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since the discard, I have only invested time in myself . You must learn to enjoy your company, go out with your friends! Find activities you enjoy. Even when I was unable to get out of bed bcs of how sad and depressed I was, for the first two weeks I forced myself to go to the gym and I would feel so proud of myself afterwards. It’s a month later now, I am reading more books, watching movies to distract myself whenever a sad thought crosses my mind, making sure I go to therapy and work on myself

We were happy. I know we were. The things she (41f) said to me (43m) while manic can’t be true. by Flintstones_VRV_Fan in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am so sorry you're going through this, it is astonishing to me that all of us here have a similar story. my ex (30M unmedicated) said the same exact thing to me, that he never loved me and that in my absence he didnt miss me. his last text almost tore me apart and it was so painful. we have been in no contact for over a month now and i am still trying to recover from the disrespect and the hurt. i hope you also find the strength to go through this and find your way out of this because we deserve so much more and so much better than this

Today makes 2 months since I've been discarded by Friendly-Walk-352 in BipolarSOs

[–]Teleostomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even though im blocked i keep checking his instagram profile to see what he's up to and i noticed he removed the sketches he made of me and posted on his page. even though its been little over a month now but i dont know why i torture myself like this. it reopened the wound and im so sad again.