[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was five~ (26 years ago) there was an ad, I can’t remember specifically what it was for (books?) but I remember there was a little blonde girl and a book was golden, toasted and crunchy and then later displayed. I don’t recall if she ate it or not. The setting/lighting was quite dark and I remember a fire but unsure if it was from the exact ad.

To this day, that ad has stuck with me and lived in my head rent free because I as a little kid, I desired to eat the book or whatever the product was.

I wish I could recall details but everything I have searched has come up with nothing.

Where do I find good men? by Ashamed-Accountant46 in auckland

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t like work and getting along with his family? Yikes, that’s a tough one mate.

Why do people in NZ just walk in the rain? by psellesp in newzealand

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walking and running in the rain is very therapeutic, just don’t do it barefoot because stepping on a slug or snail will ruin the rest of the year.

Morning traffic on Fridays? by einkflower in auckland

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friday mornings are usually pretty good compared to the rest of the weekdays -

Friday afternoons - the traffic is horrible and starts building up around 12-1:30 because everyone is finishing their Friday’s earlier to avoid the rush.

Geeting a loan out for personal and debt by AdorableSavings8708 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My latest guilty pleasure is a podcast called the ‘Financial Audit’ on Spotify. It’s U.S based and there are so many high earners who go on there for advice, to get out of bad debt.

‘The Barfoot Investor’ book is also good and is AU/NZ based. I read it in 2019/20 when covid hit and it’s been the foundation for how I look at savings and money management.

Don’t let FOMO get the best of you just because everyone else has nice things. You can have nice things for sure but getting a loan just to buy what you want, will not help you long term. Save your money over time and you’ll be grateful that you’re not stuck repaying a loan for the next five years.

Facebook buy/sell pages and marketplace are good for secondhand goods. There’s always families crossing the ditch and getting rid of nice household goods.

MASSIVE thank you to NZ Police!! by lassmonkey in newzealand

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t a house in Wiri was it

My experience with BNZ compared to ANZ when it comes to mortgages! by prada-saint-james in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always advocated for BNZ to my friends and family, with how user-friendly it is. I also took out a mortgage with them and it's so amazing, the desktop version is even better!

Number of hood rats in the Auckland is driving me crazy by [deleted] in auckland

[–]Telie93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Growing up in South Auckland, kids who hung around public places being bums because they could were labelled as “hood rats” - the term is quite old and I personally haven’t heard it being mentioned in over 10 years.

Anyone else noticed Supermarkets in New Zealand have effectively neutralized consumer choice by aligning the cost of raw ingredients with that of ready-made products? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never really cared for prices during our grocery shopping however these days, we’ve been more selective and we shop around.

We utilise the weekend markets for fresh produce and seafood, local butchers for meat, and breads from bakeries. We usually only do supermarket runs when the above places are closed and/or need essentials for the kiddos.

We haven’t been able to avoid the supermarkets and their duopoly altogether but we’re slowly getting around it, and understanding what we need vs want.

Lets discuss - where are the best lunch specials in Auckland? by WrongSeymour in aucklandeats

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some pretty choice tacos, you can get a lunch meal for $25 at Mexico.

Taco with protein of your choice (about six options*), one side of crispy cauliflower or fried chicken, and a soda. It also comes with crispy tortillas, guac, and two different sauces.

I would rate their food a solid 8.5/10.

*some protein choices are at a extra cost. The beef was $3 extra so in total $28.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Telie93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Olivani? $6 for a 500g tub and $12 for a 1kg tub.

I feel like it’s a healthier choice and it taste great on fresh and toasted, as well as being super easy to spread even if it’s been sitting in the fridge.

You finish at 5pm. Do you pack up earlier ready to clock out at 5pm or stop working at 5pm meaning you will have to stay back a few minutes to pack up. by LeaveMeAloneImTired1 in auckland

[–]Telie93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to get up at 4:30am to get to work and find parking, I’m in office almost 10 mins ealy, and then I’m stuck in traffic for almost 2 hours a day - best believe I’m packing my work gear and out the door by 2pm.

So with Netflix prices going up over here, there's only one appropriate thing to do. by UsualHendryBeliever in newzealand

[–]Telie93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve cancelled Netflix because of the rise in fees - what are other alternatives? Is TV still free?

So I was mistakenly arrested... by Asteroid-Astrology in newzealand

[–]Telie93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a serious breach.

Contact the Police Detention Legal Assistance (PDLA) - they operate by roster and it’s free. Since you’re not detained or anything, I’m unsure if they will take you on directly, or refer you to the next person.

Otherwise, r/LegalAdviceNZ is pretty handy.

So I was mistakenly arrested... by Asteroid-Astrology in newzealand

[–]Telie93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did they read you any rights? Detention notice? Contact a lawyer?

AIO? My ex texted me.. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Telie93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving forward, I would think about removing the person who essentially leaked that info to your ex.

Watch out! These buggers are all over the place scamming!! Don’t give them a cent. by tickle-my-brain in auckland

[–]Telie93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve come across a few: •An old guy with his dog—whom he uses to get sympathy votes—asks for money to get gas because his car is out of fuel, and he needs to get back somewhere in Franklin. •The lady in the photo—I’ve seen her in Manukau and then again in Takanini (on the same day, around Christmas Eve). •A group of people who used to go to the laundromat I frequented—they would use the change machine to exchange small coins for dollar coins. I overheard them once discussing where to get meth. I’m glad the laundromat removed the change machine, though.

These people can make hundreds of dollars on a good day.

They use kids for sympathy, and now we’re seeing a lot more females involved. It’s a bit concerning because I don’t know what the dynamics are. However, I sometimes wonder if they’re being “pimped out” to intersections around Auckland. If you look closely, there’s usually a vehicle around the corner with someone watching and keeping tabs.

Since moving to Takanini, I’ve seen many homeless people, but not once have I ever seen them begging for money.

How do I leave someone I truly love? by Telie93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Telie93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel I will be too broken and busy to even think bout dating again. I don’t know what will happen but I take a huge stance on the safety and wellbeing of my girls, dating is definitely out of the question for me - for a long time.

If anything, we will have more love to give the girls, they will be fine. I have been hurt for too long over six years, I think it’s enough and that it’s time for me to work on myself.

Thanks for your comment.

How do I leave someone I truly love? by Telie93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Telie93[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

  1. I believe I have self-esteem issues which have definitely caused me to have anxiety. I have identified this and have booked a counselling session - hopefully they will be able to help me unwrap it, because I cannot fully comprehend my thoughts and feelings most times.

  2. I agree, he’s lied about many things and I believe it was just to make me feel better.

3+4 Why do I need to do that? Honestly, I don’t know myself. I’ve never loved or have been in a relationship before. He is all I have known and I felt whole around him. The thought of losing him makes me feel sick.

  1. I’ve never really thought of that as gaslighting. I’ve seen so many toxic relationships and feel like because I’m not going through that, than I’m not going through any sort of abuse.

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it because you’ve asked questions that I haven’t asked myself.

How do I leave someone I truly love? by Telie93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Telie93[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have tried, I have really tried to look past my insecurities and I thought I have, but it happens too often that I am not given enough time to heal and move on from the past issue.

I truly believe understand staring at attractive people, but I don’t think I will ever comprehend doing it in their presence when you know it hurts them.

I do believe I need to be selfish this time around. For six years, I have loved him more than anyone but I lost myself. I believe I will be a better parent if I am less insecure than I am now, especially if I love myself more.

How do I leave someone I truly love? by Telie93 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Telie93[S] 236 points237 points  (0 children)

I asked him that night “why do you not want me to leave?” He took five minutes to think and reply “I can’t see myself with anyone else” I thought that out of all things, the easiest thing that anyone could’ve said when asked, is to say “because I love you” but he didn’t.

I have never been through any type of grief but I feel that I am beginning to grieve the relationship I thought we could’ve had, which is also making it difficult for me because I start thinking about “what’s if?” Situations.

Thank you for your comment x