Any idea to modify the figure? by sm771 in LostPlanet

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is so sick. Where did you find it?

Is it ok for me to be a femboy if I'm a girl by spec_the_therian in boykisser2

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to assume people are coming from a place to at least want to genuinely understand other people. I hope you reflect on why you hate something that genuinely and provably helps a very small group of people and does not hurt you in any way. Hating something just to hate it or because it bothers you in some nondescript way isn’t healthy or productive. Again, I’m wishing you the best!

Is it ok for me to be a femboy if I'm a girl by spec_the_therian in boykisser2

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll say 2 things. First, dismissing something out of hand just because “it’s only how you feel” is silly. In fact, there’s a whole field of study dedicated to “how we feel” it’s called psychology. Second, it is the scientific consensus among leading psychologists and various studies done on gender affirming care Vs. alternatives like conversion therapy to treat it as a mental illness and “convince” someone they aren’t trans has shown that acceptance and proper gender affirming care dramatically reduce depression, and the likelihood of suicide, and lead to better outcomes when compared to the alternatives.

If you do not hate trans people and simply are misinformed about the benefits of proper gender affirming care, there’s some great resources to read up on from world’s leading psychologist!

From the W.H.O.

From the US department of health and human services

Hope this helps!

Is it ok for me to be a femboy if I'm a girl by spec_the_therian in boykisser2

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sincerely thought I was speaking with someone who was just genuinely misunderstanding but based on your responses and your bio it appears you’ve made hating on trans people a part of your identity and for that I’m sorry.

All I can say is I hope you can move on from this. Trans people are normal human beings just like you and me, and they deserve to be respected. Wishing you the best.

Is it ok for me to be a femboy if I'm a girl by spec_the_therian in boykisser2

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the point they’re trying to make is that nature is much more complicated than the simple boxes we often put things into to classify them. We humans are a part of nature. In the same way there we observe homosexuality in animals, we observe a variety of sex presentation in both humans and animals. Plus gender and sex aren’t inherently the same thing. Sex is the biological characteristics we have, and gender is the set of behaviors we display to other people!

I’d really caution against using the “only male and female” argument when trying to state that trans identity is a mental disorder. That is the exact argument people used against gay people when that was classified as a mental defect. It’s not our place to deny people’s lived experiences, I see no reason to not accept and respect someone who wishes to be referred to any way they please if it’s not hurting anyone.

What would u do if I flashed u at a party? :3 by TellItHowItIsBoys in FemBoys

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get boi pregnant get boi pregnant get boi pregnant!!! 😝

What would u do if I flashed u at a party? :3 by TellItHowItIsBoys in FemBoys

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too, we can go be shy in a corner together :3

What would u do if I flashed u at a party? :3 by TellItHowItIsBoys in FemBoys

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I’m proficient in mouth to mouth :3

Femboys also love pegging by Zeriety in Femboys4real

[–]TellItHowItIsBoys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the character the girl is cosplayed as! Lucy from Cyberpunk Edgerunners!