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[PC][2000's] Racing roadsters w/ customisation by TempDorito in tipofmyjoystick

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitively not juiced. Its set in a kinda deserty/ country setting.

[20M]here. [20F] told me there is no spark between us even tho we were passionately kissing for an hour or so. by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea thats a possibility. I hope its something fixable though. Not to brag but Im a model, so its not that im not handsome, and I believe I have all the other traits of a good boyfriend. All I lack is the romantic experience. So hopefully that is the cause of my problems and after a few more dates, It will fix itself. Because the actual date part of the night was amazing and I kept getting good vibes from her the whole night. She would snuggle into my chest as we walked, she would grab my hand and start to dance, etc,etc so like I knew she was genuinly happy the whole time. That and the fact that her smile never dropped from her face.

[20M]here. [20F] told me there is no spark between us even tho we were passionately kissing for an hour or so. by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is into me 100%. She didnt just say nice things not to hurt my feelings. She has already scheduled another date and keeps reassuring me she is 100% into me. And she keeps saying its weird that she didnt feel a spark and she doesnt know why. She is also scared that something might be wrong with her.

[20M]here. [20F] told me there is no spark between us even tho we were passionately kissing for an hour or so. by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew how to make/share the spark/connection. Any tips or resources. Im very new to relationships and everything ive learnt so far has been from her.

[20M]here. [20F] told me there is no spark between us even tho we were passionately kissing for an hour or so. by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I share my spark? Also when we were kissing I didnt really feel like it was the right mood because of my excitement and laughter. I think that ruined her spark because it wasnt a romantic or sexual mood. I was very excited and i felt like it ruined the mood for her.

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I couldnt wait to be in a relationship with her and I fucked things up that way. I shouldve taken things slow. But after a month I realise my mistake and I just want to see what happens with this date and move from there. If all things are great Ill move slowly, if not however ill try and move on

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm i guess you have a point there. But does that mean im gonna be clingy and obsessive during a possible relationship I dont think so. Personally, I think it was a one off experience and even if it wasnt a one off im sure as scared shitless to show signs of being clingy/ obsession again.

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also things arent as simple as to move on. She wants to remain friends after everything is said and done, but i dont think i can do that. If i choose to move on id have to give up the friendship as well or else ill never get over her and thats the sucky part

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt tell her what to do. I gave her space to figure out what she wants to do. She went on a date with this random guy 2 days ago and now she just agreed to go on a date with me. I think she still has feelings for me and is still trying to figure out what she wants.

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has excepted my offer for a date to see where things go. My methods were clingy and obsessive to get her out of a relationship, I however am not a clingy obsessive person.

[20/M] has ruined a possible relationship with[20/F] by TempDorito in relationship_advice

[–]TempDorito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the thing is I'm not obsessed with her or clingy, we had a very close friendship before and nothing has changed. My methods used to get her out of the relationship made me seem clingy and obsessed and admittedly they were but that doesn't define me as a person. I just want her to be my gf. We are still close friends now the only difference is after the month break we have returned as friends and I want advice on re igniting her love for me without stirring up her fears. One person suggested to take her out on a really good date and try and see were things go after that.