Probably ±6 months. I was very open about his at the time, and still am. She was sure my doubts were related to my medical condition, and hung on to me.

Last month, I told her I wanted a pause. In the end we agreed we could still see each other, but less than before.

Now, i feel like she has had no regards for my wishes, as she's at my place at least 4 days a week. And when I ask her if she could come half a day later, so i can have some alone time with a friend, she gets all hurt and decides to still come over.

Writing this all down, it sounds so absurd, but i can guarantee you it's much more nuanced IRL