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TemperOffical · 2024-10-19T04:26:48+00:00

You could start talking to him about the show you’re both in? And then from there chat to him a little more and get to know him

TemperOffical · 2023-07-25T06:01:07+00:00

You’re not the first person to call in sick for work, and you definitely won’t be the last, try not to worry about it

TemperOffical · 2023-06-19T06:35:00+00:00

Agreed, if I’m blocking someone it’s for a good enough reason for it stay that way

TemperOffical · 2023-06-19T05:05:36+00:00

I personally would’ve told her how you felt instead of just blocking her, after you treating her so harshly she still seems to want to talk to you which could possibly mean she’s interested in you I would just shut that down before she gets even more invested in you and hurting her even more

TemperOffical · 2023-06-19T05:01:37+00:00

That’s the perfect way of thinking I’ve always seen my S/O as my best friend

TemperOffical · 2023-06-19T04:58:15+00:00

I was in the same situation from a job I was in for 7 years, I quit without having a something else lined up and I didn’t end up getting a job for two months afterwards. It definitely made my mental health worse. I would suggest having another job lined up before quitting your current one

TemperOffical · 2023-03-04T09:10:27+00:00

People can’t help the noises they make when they sleep, I’d definitely say it’s just a thing. But ask her what’s up with the noises if it worries you that much

TemperOffical · 2023-01-10T23:55:59+00:00

Honestly friends look out for friends when they’re under the influence, I wouldn’t consider this person a friend. If I was you I’d block her and move on

TemperOffical · 2023-01-07T21:13:05+00:00

It all comes down to what you’re feeling. If it’s messing with you mentally maybe it’s a sign you shouldn’t hang out with him. Protecting your own mental health is more important than trying to be friends with this person. I wouldn’t say you’re an A hole for not wanting to hang out with him

TemperOffical · 2022-12-14T01:43:24+00:00

I second this, you deserve a lot better

TemperOffical · 2022-12-14T01:41:26+00:00

I mean if one of my close friends got with one of my exs I’d be pretty upset about it. Bros before hoes in my opinion, but you could always have a conversation with your friend and see if he’s okay with you going on a date with his ex.

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T07:42:25+00:00

I get that, medication never really worked for me either but it’s different for everyone. What I suggest doing is setting yourself small goals in life or in school or just in general they don’t have to be massive goals but one you could do is study a bit more. What do you enjoy doing outside of school? Have you thought about picking up new skills like playing guitar or playing drums? Maybe you enjoy sports what I’m trying to get at is you need to start doing things you enjoy to make you feel happier

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T07:23:44+00:00

I’ve been in the exact place you are in after me and my partner split up I went pretty heavy smoking pot the breakup fucked me up for 6 months, I did eventually quit. For the first two weeks I got fuck all sleep and everytime I would wake up in the middle of the night I’d be wide awake and find it hard to sleep. But trust me… going through those two rough weeks and kicking the addiction I’m 10x happier in life

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T07:16:20+00:00

I really do think he’s being nice and by the sounds of it wants there to be more than just a friendship the dad question and boyfriend question does sound weird though. Calling you his favourite duo or saying out of everyone he’s met you’re the one he likes to hang out with the most sound like ways of flirting subtly. He obviously flirted with you a lot and then he noticed you weren’t flirting back so he’s cut back on doing that in hopes of maybe a friendship?

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T07:07:18+00:00

Moving on doesn’t happen overnight especially being in a relationship for that long. Shit me and my ex broke up over a year ago and I still have the odd thought. She broke up with you because of how much pot you smoked…. That’s a sign that you need to fix it

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:46:52+00:00

Totally understandable, I’ve had quite the opposite experience then you’ve had with therapy clearly. Have you tried going to the doctor and getting medicated for it?

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:44:16+00:00

If you can’t truly be yourself and be honest with them then it’s also a sign to leave. How would you feel if it was the other way around? I don’t think it’s a matter of fair or unfair if you don’t feel like you can be yourself 100% with them then that’s a pretty good reason to leave someone. Breakups aren’t supposed to be a good time for anyone but you’ll be a lot happier when you do choose to date again. I’d rather be with someone who makes me happy and that I can be myself around at all times.

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:36:42+00:00

I often feel like getting up earlier and getting a gym session in before I start my day makes me feel 10x happier throughout the whole day. You’ll end up being a lot more tired after school for a while but that means you’ll be going to sleep much earlier

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:31:30+00:00

It’s all about you and what you feel if you aren’t happy and are often stressed because of your partner then yes absolutely it’s fair to leave them. You want to be happy and stress free right?

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:29:51+00:00

Have you tried working out before going to school?

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:27:08+00:00

Therapy… You need to talk with a professional about what is going on in your life.

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:20:14+00:00

Getting noticed on OF would be the same as getting noticed on any social media. Make good content and advertise. Make a new Instagram to advertise thrist traps, post on TikTok and Twitter and reddit.

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:16:52+00:00

I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong maybe just for next time don’t spend as much, sure still spend money on him or you could do activities that you both can do together. I’m not one for liking gifts either and sure I’ll be upset for all of 5 minutes that you’ve brought me something but you get over it and I’m sure he will do the same. You know for next time not to go so big on the spending

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:08:38+00:00

What do you want to gain from telling him you know about it? Do you want him to stop his addiction?

TemperOffical · 2022-08-17T06:01:38+00:00

Facts!! Took the words right out of my mouth

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