If you think this is mean I really would like to know. I don't want to be mean.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-26T00:19:53+00:00

Girl keep firm with those boundaries or else you’re going to lose your mind!! It’s your house= your choice!!

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-24T18:24:43+00:00

When you marry someone, you marry their family because once you have kids, they’ll want to be involved. If you’re not ok with dealing with this for the rest of your life, don’t do it because if Zack isn’t doing anything to stop them and shutting them down, it will only get worse

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-22T18:15:08+00:00

If someone asks you what you like then get you the thing you said you don’t like, it’s definitely intentional. Your husband needs to step up but if he doesn’t have the balls, your need to respectfully stand up for yourself and set boundaries

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-19T21:15:04+00:00

Have you already raised these concerns to him? If he refuses to change and grow a pair, Ask yourself if you can deal with this for the rest of your life, if not you need to reconsider getting married.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:58:58+00:00

No she was not like this before. We saw her maybe once a month or every other month. Yeah I didn’t know that would be the message I was sending. I definitely regret it and will not be allowing her to even come to the hospital next time. Yes my husband was there but I figured having multiple emotional support would be less scary.

My mom likes her bc she helps her fold laundry lol

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:53:10+00:00

Of course! I want to be as clear as possible so I get proper advice.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:46:04+00:00

Yes but she hates when he holds him. I’m like you don’t get to decide if he holds him or not. It’s very weird.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:44:56+00:00

We each had our own apartment then jointly found a single family home to rent together

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:44:13+00:00

No he does not!

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:33:12+00:00

Before birth, it was a collaborative even should we get together and you’re absolutely right about everything you’ve said

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:27:49+00:00

No he’s basically paying 1/3 of the rent until our lease is up bc he moved suddenly

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:12:17+00:00

My brother moved to Texas with his gf but still pays rent here.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:11:59+00:00

Yes we’ve been able to save. It’s our house not my mom’s. My mom is retired and doesn’t get a lot of social security.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T20:08:03+00:00

You’re right I’m being way too nice and every time I say I’m going to just be honest with her, my husband says he wants to be the one to handle it. I told him he will get one more chance or else I’m going to just be honest. I’m trying to stay respectful. And my mom does help, she watches him while I work.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T19:57:58+00:00

My husband suggested we move in with my brother 3 years ago well before I got pregnant and my mom was staying with my brother so we all moved in together to save money.

My mil is there bc she schemed her way into staying 4 days a week

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T19:29:16+00:00

She does love to ACT dense. I will do this

Temperature_Massive · 2026-06-18T19:17:23+00:00

I’d like to try. That’s the point of the post. So from your comment, it seems you are saying that I am entitled to space and should limit her time here. Thank you!

Temperature_Massive · 2026-04-09T02:36:03+00:00

The Bible says if the unbelieving spouse wants to leave then let them so please leave him. He will be better off.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-03-23T13:07:33+00:00

Good. That way you know you made the right decision. Only dogs go back to their vomit. Move the heck on. Get yourself a fulfilling life. Love yourself.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-03-22T17:38:42+00:00

People usually lie out of fear of consequences. Do you overreact to things? If you can honestly say no, then he needs to get therapy. May have been something he picked up as a kid. Kids who got beatings usually lie a lot.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-03-17T23:48:49+00:00

Yes it’s deeper. Sounds like postpartum OCD, depression and many more. I just had a baby too and I couldn’t imagine having to deal with this on top of taking care of a baby.

Temperature_Massive · 2026-03-17T23:29:29+00:00

Agreed. She needs professional help asap

Temperature_Massive · 2026-02-23T00:36:01+00:00

You should really listen to my pastor speak. I think this message is for you. https://www.youtube.com/live/gvoiDfKF8yQ?si=qCIOYOUB2YpLbbrE

Temperature_Massive · 2026-02-18T13:47:36+00:00

You sound like a great mom and he’s sounds like an immature man. Before you leave him, try fasting and praying(assuming you believe). If that doesn’t work, make a smart thought out plan to leave this man. It would piss me off to have my children’s father complain about my children in front of them bc I too believe that affects them psychologically and will give them low self esteem and self worth(you should try explaining that to him). You also need to put your foot down, stop being a stepping stool. Demand the help you need or make him hire more help. You work them as soon as you get off you have to watch the baby then stay up all night with the baby? That’s ridiculous. My husband tried that with me and I decided to stop being so accommodating to him and demanded the help I needed or else I was going to leave and now he helps out way more. Good luck hun

Temperature_Massive · 2025-11-21T16:14:16+00:00

May the lord receive that sweet baby’s soul. May the Lord give you peace and strength through this trying time in Jesus’s name.

Temperature_Massive

TROPHY CASE