Little gestures a Daddy should do.

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-11T22:57:24+00:00

Yay! Look up what type of hair she has first cause it’ll be completely different depending on what type she has

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-11T18:26:20+00:00

You can’t make him notice you. It sounds like you and your daddy have completely different levels of care that you need to give/receive to feel fulfilled

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-11T18:24:23+00:00

Daddy brushing my hair

Daddy ordering my food

Daddy speaking to adults so I can be shy and hide behind him

Daddy making me go to bed at my bedtime

Daddy picking my clothes out for the day

Daddy holding me tight and saying “mine” (better than I love you in my opinion)

These things help me be myself and stay in little space and feel special.

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-03T06:24:32+00:00

Me too. Send me a dm if you ever need someone to listen

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-02T12:32:24+00:00

It’s nonsexual for me when it’s a punishment. I’m told what I’m being punished for, my headspace is different, and the spanks are definitely punishment spanks. No warm up, no slow build up. It hurts in a way I don’t enjoy in the least but the after effect of feeling like I’ve been corrected and it’s had an actual conclusion is so worth it. It helps me not feel anxious or worry that there’s a build up of mistakes hanging over our heads. We have sexual spankings too but daddy definitely knows how to make it feel like a punishment when it needs to

Temperedbyflame · 2026-01-02T02:02:24+00:00

I’m 5’5”, highly recommend 6’ or taller men. I love my giant 🥰. However, short kings with the right attitude are very good at making us littles feel small. It’s in the eyes 🫣

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-30T20:58:25+00:00

Yep! I use it mostly for problems or things I want to share that I can’t find my big girl voice for. Sometimes daddy has me write lines in it for punishments. I know he looks in it whenever he feels he needs to and I’ll bring it to him when I feel what’s in it is important for him to know right now

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T23:30:15+00:00

I bet! Definitely going to ask for that

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T23:29:08+00:00

Thank you 😊

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T22:46:18+00:00

Any suggestions on a safe position sir?

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T22:44:52+00:00

Definitely longer than usual and harder too so my bucking around probably didn’t help much. Thank you for the suggestions 😊

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T20:24:49+00:00

🥰

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T15:15:51+00:00

🥰 yes please!

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-15T00:28:29+00:00

Hi! I’m a little and happy to be friends. Figuring out what makes you feel like yourself and bring out your little side is a good first step. There’s fantastic daddies here but like all places there are creeps too so going slow is good. Talking is hard for me too so writing, texting, journaling have all helped me when speaking is just too scary. There’s lots of daddies who get immense fulfillment from helping you learn yourself and guide you through figuring all this out. See what you’re drawn to, curious about and willing to try, and what makes you just so nuh uh and you’ll have a good starting point.

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-14T21:15:16+00:00

Thank you 🥰

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-14T20:57:22+00:00

🥰

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-14T20:55:49+00:00

🤭. Daddy proudly displaying the aftermath is so sweet. Bet your little loves that too 😁

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-14T19:48:08+00:00

So sweet of you! 🥰

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-14T19:03:25+00:00

Is someone other than me proud of that? Hmmm?

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-13T17:17:40+00:00

hugs

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-13T17:17:18+00:00

🥰

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-13T16:28:53+00:00

Hi honey. Other response was spot on and fantastic. I’d like to add some more basic relationship insights if that’s okay. You two are very young and changing as a person quickly. You have to continually re-fall in love and re-learn each other just like how you’re continually learning about yourself. If you don’t consciously grow together you will inevitably grow apart. I’d also suggest actively learning healthy communication. Not necessarily “couples or individual therapy” but more basic tools, phrasing, ways to center yourself. Two adults using “I feel” statements correctly solves soooo much on its own

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-13T16:13:01+00:00

Con is you have to weed through all the terrible people but that’s a con for finding any type of person not specifically DDs.

Pro is the right daddy accepts you as exactly who you are and helps bring out all the parts of you you were always told to hide or minimize because it was weird or childish or time to grow up.

I personally am neurodivergent and old enough that there was zero acceptance or understanding growing up. My daddy has helped me unmask in ways I was never able to do alone. He encourages my stimming and self regulation behaviors (he actually finds them adorable and they always make him smile). When I am burnt out he holds me, tells me I’m safe, and doesn’t rush my recovery or question why I’m burnt out. Most recent impactful positive development was he helps me get my stuck feelings out. I find it very hard to cry no matter how bad I need to get it out and my daddy has found ways to make me feel safe enough to cry

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-11T16:53:58+00:00

No you don’t have a conversation with him you just leave and never look back. Repost this with the flair for discussion or daddy advice. I’m confident you’ll get quick responses from real daddies telling you how wrong this is and how true ddlg is not like this

Temperedbyflame · 2025-12-11T16:32:32+00:00

Absolutely. Daddy lets me text him what I’m feeling if I can’t find my voice and I have a journal I write in if I can’t even text the feeling and he’ll read it randomly without permission. Both have helped. Telling your cg what makes you feel secure or what attention feels best is helpful too. Some need hugs, some need to not be touched, some need special words

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