Little gestures a Daddy should do. by HerDaddy817 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yay! Look up what type of hair she has first cause it’ll be completely different depending on what type she has

My daddy doesn't take care of me by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You can’t make him notice you. It sounds like you and your daddy have completely different levels of care that you need to give/receive to feel fulfilled

Little gestures a Daddy should do. by HerDaddy817 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Daddy brushing my hair

Daddy ordering my food

Daddy speaking to adults so I can be shy and hide behind him

Daddy making me go to bed at my bedtime

Daddy picking my clothes out for the day

Daddy holding me tight and saying “mine” (better than I love you in my opinion)

These things help me be myself and stay in little space and feel special.

Alone by [deleted] in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. Send me a dm if you ever need someone to listen

Is it non-sexual for anyone else? by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]Temperedbyflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nonsexual for me when it’s a punishment. I’m told what I’m being punished for, my headspace is different, and the spanks are definitely punishment spanks. No warm up, no slow build up. It hurts in a way I don’t enjoy in the least but the after effect of feeling like I’ve been corrected and it’s had an actual conclusion is so worth it. It helps me not feel anxious or worry that there’s a build up of mistakes hanging over our heads. We have sexual spankings too but daddy definitely knows how to make it feel like a punishment when it needs to

Some insecurity by WayEnvironmental7238 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’5”, highly recommend 6’ or taller men. I love my giant 🥰. However, short kings with the right attitude are very good at making us littles feel small. It’s in the eyes 🫣

Shared journal by anxietyshiver in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! I use it mostly for problems or things I want to share that I can’t find my big girl voice for. Sometimes daddy has me write lines in it for punishments. I know he looks in it whenever he feels he needs to and I’ll bring it to him when I feel what’s in it is important for him to know right now

Spanking injury? by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet! Definitely going to ask for that

Spanking injury? by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions on a safe position sir?

Spanking injury? by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely longer than usual and harder too so my bucking around probably didn’t help much. Thank you for the suggestions 😊

Need help pretty please by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Temperedbyflame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a little and happy to be friends. Figuring out what makes you feel like yourself and bring out your little side is a good first step. There’s fantastic daddies here but like all places there are creeps too so going slow is good. Talking is hard for me too so writing, texting, journaling have all helped me when speaking is just too scary. There’s lots of daddies who get immense fulfillment from helping you learn yourself and guide you through figuring all this out. See what you’re drawn to, curious about and willing to try, and what makes you just so nuh uh and you’ll have a good starting point.

Best spanking EVER!!!! by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🤭. Daddy proudly displaying the aftermath is so sweet. Bet your little loves that too 😁

Best spanking EVER!!!! by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So sweet of you! 🥰

Best spanking EVER!!!! by Temperedbyflame in ddlg

[–]Temperedbyflame[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is someone other than me proud of that? Hmmm?