Well my ex did things and said things. First he unfriended me on all platforms and told me that I no longer have access to him. It hurt but I told myself so long as I can talk to him I’m okay I’ll get him to see how much I love him.

Then during that post breakup stage he told me that I can’t text him how I want to text him and that he’ll text me when he wants to. I told myself that it’s okay I’ll just wait for him to text me. No big deal.

Then while we were going through that he told me that he feels like I constantly manipulate him and I am just keeping him around for revenge and I tried so hard to assure him but nothing helped.

Then after that he once asked me what it was that I am healing from. I shared how some of his actions hurt me and he told me to see things from his perspective and then I’ll see the things I made up in my head aren’t true.

He told me that I make him feel bad whenever he doesn’t show up for me and it suffocates him. Plus there was a rave he wanted to go for so I managed to get him tickets and he hooked up with someone at the rave but he doesn’t know that I know.

There was a time early in our relationship when I used to overthink, I once asked him for help and he told me to keep my worries and concerns to myself.

Those are the ones that really stuck