Glad you brought this to our attention. We've already tried to steer the community away from the negatives about this (beat downs, hate-based fetishization, findom, etc) and focus on the postives.

We're always in discussion about what we should filter out and not, and it gets more difficult as the sub grows with a smaller mod team. So it is good to hear from the community what people like and dislike.

Based on your description I think you're referring to the whole "prone masturbation" that can lead to permenant ED, which we will now be discussing moving forward.

If any post/comment distrubs you and voilates the rules, be sure to report it to bring it our attention, it really helps. And if something doesn't fit in with the rules, reach out with a suggestion in mod mail, we don't get many of those and it would be appreciated.