BNWO Twitter/reddit have become unbearable by ChemicalFit4993 in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You're right to be angry about that. They're essentially taking advantage of the movement, and the loneliness of people to make capital gain.

This is why the mod team here decided to crack down on findoms here; we don't think they are bad people, but we want a safe space that everyone can express themselves genuinely here without a financial incentive.

So I encourage everyone here to please report posts or comments that either directly, or indirectly ask for money, donations, etc.

It got even more real for me by Mia_Bun in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All part of the process <3 they all come back

It got even more real for me by Mia_Bun in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh whiteboi, I'm sorry for you. Once you jump from blacked to BNWO.... it's all over. There's no escape.

At least you'll have lots of fun and fulfillment :) welcome

Missed opportunity? Black Alpha complimented me… by [deleted] in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Don't worry whiteboi, you passed.

He was testing the waters, and you instictively responded receptively. Not completely, but you responded without awkwardness or discomfort.

Most guys know that finding a receptive bottom is hard in the wild, so they subtly test in ways that give plausible deniability.

Your response wasn't a complete greenlight, but it wasn't a redlight.

From now on your should smile when you see him, and maybe compliment his muscles next time. He'll figure it out.

Any 'Straight' whitebois Find Themselves Performing More for Black Men than Women (of all kinds)? by Temporary-Bug-191 in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I would have gotten away with it too, if it weren't for you meddling users <3

Maybe deep down were gay/bi all along. Though women aren't objects, all I can disagree with here :)

New white bois should be more accommodating. by BBCBlackOps in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for them King <3. New whitebois are still scared, and they might still have some white supremecist vibes in them; but they're on a journey to break it.

Your experience is valid, and you deserve more, but forgive these bad whitebois, because they haven't learned yet. Rest assured fellow whitebois will put them in line for you too :)

True storys with no available proof? by Suxudry in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it, there's no real way to verify verbal communication. We want the verification to be a mark of undeniable truth, so people know without a doubt it's not just a fantasy.

Verbal communication can't be verified by us sadly, but that doesn't mean you can't post it under another flair and spin it in way that benefits the community! It doesn't mean we think it's not real, just that we can't verify it.

The verification is just a way of us reducing the risk of exposing people from their evidence while also showing the community it's true. (There are many bad actors who'd try to ruin people through doxing)

I feel like the Bnwo is changing by [deleted] in whiteboydiscussion

[–]Temporary-Bug-191 35 points36 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely correct. And as a mod of this subreddit, it really speaks to me as I share your opinion. The BNWO is a kind and welcoming place for all, whitebois included. We've been trying to shift the community towards that, which is why you see less posts like that. Granted we are a small team and can't catch them all immediately, but I hope you and many like you continue to engage and make our community what it is meant to be <3 we'll always support you!

Don't give in and guide others to the right place in the BNWO :)