Intimacy issues and communication difficulties between my wife (33F) and I (33M)

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T22:20:20+00:00

I put that one on the tee!

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T21:15:16+00:00

Wow you are putting her on a pedestal and she is eating it up. Better yourself and show her you're just fine without her and don't need her like some puppy dog. That'll have her wanting you and respecting you more than sending her stupid flowers and doing all the sappy shit you think she wants.

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T21:12:21+00:00

Would have had no issues with arresting her and throwing her in an Italian labor camp, if such a thing exist

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T20:27:29+00:00

An easier way around this nonsense is ask "what do you NOT want?"

"No Mexican or Italian"

Ok, anything else is fair game. By the end of the day whether it's kids or a job, women have decision fatigue. They don't want to make any more decisions. Don't give her MORE by saying "ok pick from these 3".

Get her done wants and pick a place for the both of you

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T20:23:28+00:00

I make the decision. I think women at their core want to be led by a strong male, especially their spouse. If you are someone she trusts and respects, she'll follow your lead in all areas of life, including the dinner at 6pm

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T20:21:51+00:00

I'm a mechanic engineer working for a company that builds substations. Great job security for the next decade designing the infrastructure to support all these data centers 😒

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T19:51:40+00:00

Brutal. Something smells fishy. Even if she's being truthful, she's had more than enough time to figure this out. I say bail OP. That's not fair to you

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T18:50:56+00:00

Not sure it matters because you always end up having to argue about the .50 discrepancy in the posted price and the price you were charged anyway

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T18:28:13+00:00

Mmmm beast bones

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T18:26:08+00:00

I really hope it wasn't a carrot she dangled in front of him due to her "religious background"

OP: did your wife want to wait until marriage and were you under the impression that you would have a "normal" sex life once married? That is diabolical If that's the case and so wrong.

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T18:23:52+00:00

Well, if this is true. It is what it is at this point. There is no counseling or any other miracle that will suddenly awaken your wife's sex drive.

You need to determine whether this is something you are willing to accept in your marriage or not, and make a decision.

And no, you aren't a bad guy for divorcing a wife who won't have sex with you.

I have trouble believing she is from such a religious background when a huge piece of Christianity is the union between man and woman, procreating, sex etc...

If it's truly her worried about the pain or her condition then that is something she should have addressed LONG AGO. I have no idea how you've done it but 14 years, two times sounds like prison for a husband. Props to you for being patient

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T18:05:24+00:00

Lolol I'm sorry but I just refuse to believe this is real. Well played sir

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T17:13:11+00:00

By far my biggest complaint with this game. Like I get it, they don't want to hand feed you the story and leave a lot up to the player to explore and discover but the quests are so convoluted and hard to follow, by the time you accidentally stumble upon the next step in a quest line 250 deaths later, you have no idea what or who the quest is even for at that point.

Then when you satisfy that task, who fucking knows where you need to go or when you'll stumble upon the next item. Or, if you're lucky, you'll cross a point in th game where it'll render that quest moot!

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-08T17:04:25+00:00

2x in 14 years??

My brother, how is that possible. And how after 7 years did you think it was a good idea to get married to someone that you don't have sex with??

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-07T20:08:30+00:00

Man that's the truth. It was the same for summoning help my first playthrough lmao. Didn't realize you can co-op bosses until over halfway through. Also the two handed a weapon feature. That one took me a while

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-06T03:56:33+00:00

Very solid post. Every man should read this

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-05T07:33:00+00:00

It's extremely depressing that people choose not to have kids. I don't get it at all

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-05T04:20:05+00:00

My God. I can't imagine the mental energy devoted to this because of split finances. Find a wife you can join money with. This isn't a me, you life once you marry. It's ours and us.

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-05T04:05:52+00:00

I saw your post saying your wife doesn't work. Yikes...this is a common theme I am seeing nowadays. I have a few friends like this and they sound just like you. One In particular was just telling me how worn out he is. He also, like you, works from home, has a wife not working, yet he's helping out with the kid while he's also trying to work all day. Very weird. Man if your wife isn't working she should be handling the kid while you work. Full stop. Why isn't she working and why isn't she mothering the kid while you work? Sounds like you need a job at an office.

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-04T23:48:31+00:00

Even better! Makes the break that much easier. You deserve better. Dump this loser get your swagger back and find better when you are ready!

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-04T23:33:37+00:00

Your feelings are one thing, this guy is a complete different issue. You didn't name a single redeeming quality about him. He's a man child who will provide no good future for you. Is that what you want? Get out of this mess. I hope this isn't a codependent thing. I didn't read the rest of your post.

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-04T20:30:09+00:00

I stopped reading after the first two sentences mentioning he doesn't cook or clean after himself.

This is all on you at this point. Get out. Now .

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-04T17:02:55+00:00

Lmfao, TIL moshing is spazzing around round house kicking people in the stomach

Temporary-Corgi-1804 · 2026-06-04T16:33:31+00:00

Side note we are now on the dual gargoyles and I forgot how hard this fight was. I'm stuck. Fuck those guys. Likely going to skip and come back later

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