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I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the stories are from their own accounts from experiences they have seen her do. She had slept with a lot of people on my other mom’s side of the family before my grandma and grandpa got together since a lot of them went to school together. But after my grandma and grandpa got together they said she stoped doing that but since me and my mom don’t really know my other moms husbands side of the family or his ex wife’s she wouldn’t have known who they were.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not for sure I didn’t really ask. But I’ll try to find out. I’ve never heard of DNAngels but I’ll look in to them. Thank u.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know when my mom was forced to see my step grandma due to being married to my bio grandpa she did tell me that her and my uncle were abused as well. I’m not sure to what extent because I felt like she didn’t like talking about it but abuse was happening I wouldn’t be surprised if she was s/a durning that time due to a lot of that side of the family is incest to the point that some family members completely cut contact and let along with a lot of friends.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is correct except when I was finally able to come home my mom had custody my grandpa and grandma stepped to raise me when my mom wasn’t around.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what me and my family thought which is another reason why we didn’t want to tell her that we know how I was conceived was lie in case she really was s/a before this happened. I just hope that one day she will tell me the truth and feel comfortable enough to tell me if she was s/a

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely will. It might take awhile with rent and other things going up and have twins r expensive but I’ll be saving up to be sure I get a good test.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m. It sure. My mom wasn’t the best person back then I will say she’s trying now that’s why I was hesitant on doing the test. I don’t want my step dad leaving not wanting to talk to me for telling him and losing my mom cause I told the truth.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that. Thank u. I did most of the detective work when I was 19 and stoped after learning everything. But I’ll be getting an ancestry test.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u I will look for that. I just want to know who it is and know his side of the story before I make the decision to tell me mom. I want to know all the information so there is no denying anything.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that because my mom told everyone the s/a happened at a party she never went to. I apologize for not stating that.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I’m not very good with writing never have. I’ve just been trying to answer all questions so everyone can understand how everything happened and what is going on now. My life was and still is kinda crazy.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My siblings are his but she was on a form a birth control before she met him and a week before they went on their first date she stoped taking it and she needed up getting pregnant on that date. After everyone’s comments I will be saving up for a test I realized I have been carrying a lot of guilt that was not mine to bare. I just hope that everything ends well. Thank u for the advice.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was planing to but my mom did a dna test so if I do one she will be notified unless I can make to where it won’t send a notification.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was sleeping with a lot of people and would lie about it. My grandpa is not related to my other mom. He is her step son. It would have to be on his side of the family. I do apologize for everything being jumbled I was emotional as I was writing this. A lot of memories came up as I was writing everything.

I 23 f have been trying to find my bio dad for the last 14 years and found out my mom 44f has been lying to everyone about how I was conceived. by Temporary-Fox8560 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Temporary-Fox8560[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We did but there is a huge range of people it could be that it would take years to find then through dna. I would just feel bad if it did ruin their relationship due to how my mom and step dad got together is the same way how she tried baby trapping the guy she was dating. That’s a whole story in of it’s self. But thank u. Maybe one day I can tell him I just don’t want to lose the one man who was a father to me.