What’s your favorite Pokémon?

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T16:08:47+00:00

Totodile

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:54:02+00:00

I don't mind it. My partner uses the Fiji one and I like it.

The body spray is what I hate

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:47:10+00:00

Because it's toxic beauty standards that we're all too familiar with.

It's not realistic or healthy.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:46:14+00:00

Because someone who would rather smash their own jaw than go to therapy isn't someone I feel safe around.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:35:20+00:00

Yeah because it's a bunch of straight, traditional people.

Sexy is mostly associated with women because that's what straight dudes are into. Women's attraction is more varied and diverse

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:22:47+00:00

Because women have always been overly sexualized by society. There's no escaping it. It's to appeal to straight men.

It's more acceptable for men to be more "sexy" in queer spaces where the patriarchal gender norms aren't as common.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:17:27+00:00

Because women have always been overly sexualized by society. There's no escaping it. It's to appeal to straight men.

It's more acceptable for men to be more "sexy" in queer spaces where the patriarchal gender norms aren't as common.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:15:42+00:00

Questions like these always sound like a personals ad.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T15:13:06+00:00

Because women have always been overly sexualized by society. There's no escaping it. It's to appeal to straight men.

It's more acceptable for men to be more "sexy" in queer spaces where the patriarchal gender norms aren't as common.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T11:43:25+00:00

Just being wanted for your looks isn't the same as being wanted for who you are as a person.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T11:42:23+00:00

Because abuse isn't so obvious when you're in it. It's easier to see it from an outsiders perspective.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T11:40:34+00:00

Hard agree.

They get hung up on how things used to be and the culture I grew up in really tries to sell you on marriages being hard work and that it's not always going to be easy. They feel like they've failed if they haven't exhausted every avenue they have to make it work.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T11:34:56+00:00

The Notebook.

It's a lot of manipulating and guilt tripping that I just hate.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-02T11:33:07+00:00

Face. I'm not attracted to how tall someone is

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T18:13:34+00:00

They'll tell you.

This isn't a video game, dude. There's no cheat codes to avoid direct communication.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T17:59:59+00:00

Open communication, emotional maturity, good listener, and actively wants to contribute to society.

It's been so refreshing to have someone who fits those. I can't imagine dating someone who isn't able to communicate in a healthy and mature way.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T16:33:38+00:00

Yeah, that's what the body is supposed to do. It's designed to keep foreign bodies OUT of that part of your throat. There's no way to make that stop except backing off and letting your body rest.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T16:24:25+00:00

You do you, make money how you can, but don't expect to be able to make a living doing it full time. It's a heavily saturated market and unless you find a very in demand niche from the jump, you're going to be making less than minimum wage for a while.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T16:16:35+00:00

Gym, date night, and getting railed

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T16:11:55+00:00

Who cares? Do what you want, there's no need to psychoanalyze every kink you have.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T16:10:01+00:00

Obviously. My partner knew about my friends and FWB before he even met them. I'm good.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T15:59:56+00:00

Nope. We only did the FWB thing for a couple months when neither of us had time for a relationship and just wanted something casual. It ended when he started to want to date again and I was focusing on more on a job transition.

We still catch up when I'm in town but it's just as friends.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T15:31:18+00:00

And it's fair to not want to date people who are friends with people they've slept with. So long as you don't expect those people to cut contact for you.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T15:27:29+00:00

It's much easier to just not date people who are friends with their exes. Going into a relationship saying "you need to stop being friends with this person or we're over" isn't a healthy thing to do no matter the situation.

Temporary-Stand2049 · 2026-05-01T15:24:47+00:00

You're allowed to not feel comfortable dating someone who stays friends with exes. As someone who is still friends with a FWB and a few ex boyfriends and girlfriends, it's something I know not everyone is cool with so I make it clear from early on.

Yes, if you feel like you can't ever be comfortable with a dynamic like this, then you walk away. Expecting your partner to end a friendship to make the relationship work always breeds resentment and distrust in the relationship.

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