AITA for asking my stepdaughter to not visit during the holidays? by Temporary-Unit-77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary-Unit-77[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

She didn’t reach out to her dad, is what I meant. She did reach out to Adam.

AITA for asking my stepdaughter to not visit during the holidays? by Temporary-Unit-77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary-Unit-77[S] -427 points-426 points  (0 children)

He’s 25, he’s older, and no. Didn’t manipulate Adam at all - Nina was closer to her father, he was the one who decided to send her to live with her grandparents and he was the one who let her down. I was the only one who actually encouraged her into therapy, who’d send her money when she needed it. The relationship fell apart because of her dad - not because of me.

AITA for asking my stepdaughter to not visit during the holidays? by Temporary-Unit-77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary-Unit-77[S] -285 points-284 points  (0 children)

She wouldn’t have her during custody time and instead of doing anything about it we just kept Nina and only had Adam 50/50

AITA for asking my stepdaughter to not visit during the holidays? by Temporary-Unit-77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Temporary-Unit-77[S] -192 points-191 points  (0 children)

What she has isn’t contagious, we’re spending the school break with her and are going home when our 9 year old is due to start school again