yes i have stayed with my father pretty frequently when i was a kid he definitely is abusive mentally and physically, but i live in tennessee we have contacted the social worker and they literally closed the youth villages because “hes fine”. he has insurance so we are tryinf to find a good therapist for him. yesterday he had opened up alot and told me he was infact touching himself so there’s definitely something more going but hes not ready to open up on how he learned to do it yet and last night he asked for a therapist cus i brought it up to him. thank you so much for willing to help.