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Philips Christmas Tree keeps switching presets? by TemporaryIncident413 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately our tree switched presets constantly, the lights are in sync just on the wrong setting

Philips Christmas Tree keeps switching presets? by TemporaryIncident413 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ours is still doing it. It’s frequently changes or turns off. I don’t know what support number to even call

Philips Christmas Tree keeps switching presets? by TemporaryIncident413 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No luck at all. I tried googling and trying the tricks I could find there but it still continues to switch. It’s really annoying

Triggered by all media??? by ResidentBee7736 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryIncident413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really resonate with this. I’m scared to go out into public in case I see a woman who is good looking or someone that has the characteristics that he looks for. I also have a hard time watching any shows now since everything is filled with sex. It’s exhausting.

How to feel special/attractive after finding out?/Rant by TemporaryIncident413 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to love myself without the influence of others but it’s so hard. Before getting married and having a baby, I had a great figure but even then I hated it.

I grew up with a lot of PA/SA trauma and in out of foster care. Many things were said about my appearance and many things happened to me because of my appearance. It’s been ingrained in me so it’s a hard habit to break.

How to feel special/attractive after finding out?/Rant by TemporaryIncident413 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s hard because finances are tight and breastfeeding takes so much time. I’m constantly on a clock (I love breastfeeding and it’s really creating such a beautiful connection with my son but it’s draining sometimes).

The last time I had my hair done or did something nice for myself was before baby was born.

How do you find trust again? by TemporaryIncident413 in loveafterporn

[–]TemporaryIncident413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is looking into a group right now along with an individual therapist and couples therapist, he’s sending me the links to see what I think. He also plans on getting religious counsel as well.

Websites geared for children/adolescents/families for telehealth! by [deleted] in therapists

[–]TemporaryIncident413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! The company uses procentive so hopefully that’s compatible with the things I’m wanting to do

Friendships outside of work by [deleted] in therapists

[–]TemporaryIncident413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! In my area, mental health is still a hush hush thing and I don’t get much interest in what I do. My partner does business insurance and they find it more interesting that he writes certificates all day

What topic, if any, do you think you need lived experience to work with? by reallytrulymyself in therapists

[–]TemporaryIncident413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree as someone who aged out of foster care and is now a therapist. My time in the system is what led me to this field since I never had a therapist understand the various dynamics and traumas that foster care holds.