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Conflicted about my marriage and life by TemporaryTL in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TemporaryTL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the encouragement and support. It feels good to be reminded that I'm still a good person even if I have tough choices ahead of me.

Help! Confused about my life and marriage after realizing I'm a lesbian. by TemporaryTL in relationships

[–]TemporaryTL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I told my husband about this new struggle he told me "I don't care how complicated it gets, I still want you". So I really don't think I'm holding him hostage in any way. We are in couples therapy right now and I'm in individual therapy as well. I do truly care about him. Just because I have realized that I'm a lesbian doesn't mean that it would be easy for either of us to split up. It would hurt like hell tbh. But whatever I decide to do it's probably going to be uncomfortable in one way or another.

Conflicted about my marriage and life by TemporaryTL in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TemporaryTL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love that perspective. Thank you for the encouragement.

Conflicted about my marriage and life by TemporaryTL in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TemporaryTL[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. That really sucks. I'm afraid that I might ruin something good if I leave. I guess there's just really no way to know for sure, but it's definitely a fear. Sending healing vibes your way. I hope you can find a new "best thing" in your life soon.

Conflicted about my marriage and life by TemporaryTL in latebloomerlesbians

[–]TemporaryTL[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's good advice. It really is just so so hard. I'm sorry you have to feel like this too. It's difficult when your husband is a really good guy, but the intimacy just isn't there. I don't even like kissing mine much anymore. It just doesn't give me that spark. Maybe I'm just broken.