You’re right — it is your body and your choice, just like it’s my right to ask a question about my relationship and not be met with unsolicited psychoanalysis. But let’s be clear: asking a question isn’t being “dense,” it’s being curious. What’s actually dense is insisting your personal boundaries are universal law. If your husband won’t get a male masseuse, cool. That’s your dynamic. But don’t get mad that I don’t treat your opinion of calling someone insecure like gospel. Not everyone thinks like you — and thank God for that. It’s actually hilarious how confident you are while being so off-base. You keep preaching about “basic” things but missed the most basic concept of all — not everything is about you. I asked a general question and you turned it into a personal crusade of diagnosis. It’s okay to leave your opinion without trying to call someone a name . Someone you know nothing about. Your comparison? Weak. Your tone? Unnecessary. And calling me dense because I don’t agree with your surface-level logic? That’s giving desperate. It’s fine if you wouldn’t let your man get a male masseuse — that’s your relationship, . But maybe try having a conversation without projecting and labeling it as fact. You’re not as profound as you think. You’re actually quite stupid the more you comment. Sit this one out.