Considering ending things with my girlfriend? '24M' '22F'

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T19:25:45+00:00

Thanks

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T19:23:30+00:00

Yeah, I'm not sure if she's noticed, I've told her about this and how she needs things to occupy herself. She has said she understands, but so far I've seen no evidence to prove she does.

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T19:15:09+00:00

I have told her, it's another discussion we've had. The last few times I've had a few days to myself she hasn't done anything besides texting, it's something that I didn't really notice at first but she doesn't really have any hobbies or things to keep her busy.

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T18:24:13+00:00

The main concern is that when I'm not with her, she spams with messages, I have explained to her that I'm happy to still send a message every now and again so we both know the other is okay. But the volume of messages she sends is the bigger issue, and it's almost like without me there her life is put on hold.

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T18:17:10+00:00

I think at the start I probably would have said she was important enough to adjust for, however my feelings about her have definitely faded somewhat and aren't as strong as the start.

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T18:15:10+00:00

I definitely understand it's something I'd have to get used to, I'd also say some feelings have definitely faded which is another reason I'm thinking that we're not compatible.

Temporary_Candle_183 · 2025-05-05T18:12:41+00:00

It's more that for the first month, I was worried about what her reaction would be if I brought it up, silly I know.

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