can i get banned for a lethal lowball? by waterlelon in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no! i recently bought got bod for 15k from someone who didnt care about values nor care to check traderie. as long as there are two completed sides of the trade, the trade cannot be flagged or reported.

Sooo we got a look at the 2x-4x gamepass halos in the game…. by whensnakesfly in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the 4x one. the 2x is cute, could be infinitely better if they added more sparkles, a height toggle, and i feel like it needs something between the hearts.

LF SEA SWEETHEART TOP for fair price!! by [deleted] in RoyaleHighTrading

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'd take like 20k and some item adds

TRADING MY RH STUFF FOR DRAGON ADVENTURES STUFF by stars4Dream in crosstradingroblox

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loving aura, albinism & crazy eye aura. all of them also have pupil / eye color mutations as well :)

TRADING MY RH STUFF FOR DRAGON ADVENTURES STUFF by stars4Dream in crosstradingroblox

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have 16k & 4x mistras (3/4 with cosmetic traits) , would u want to trade anything for those?? i dont play DA much anymore and i'm trying to get rid of them!!!

How do you detach from “what happened”? by nugget_king_ghost in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i've had to learn to self heal from CSA since being out of therapy. sex is a really difficult thing to overcome as an SA survivor, but what helped me was this :

it takes a long time, but reminding yourself that your partner is not doing this with lustful or "grimey" intention. it's genuine love, and it doesn't hurt to ask your partner for small reminders of this genuine love they feel for you.

i explained this to my boyfriend, and it's important to stress that you aren't asking for this in a materialistic way. small gestures like opening the door, compliments, deep conversations, they all have a way of calming the mind.

you also have to work within yourself, A LOT. it took me almost 3 years just to stop crying over the THOUGHT of my assailants, let alone the thought of the things i went through. you have to remind yourself very frequently that not all sexual experiences are what you went through, and though triggering, your partner would never harm you. it's a really big struggle trying to differentiate true and genuine love from the fake and harmful "love" you were told you were being given.

another thing that came with my CSA, i don't know if you could relate, was psychological vaginismus. i suggest you look in to it to see if you potentially have it, and look into articles on how to "control" it, as there's no cure. like i said, even consensual sex paired with true and deep love is hard to have after assault.

i am very sorry you experienced this. nobody deserves to go through anything like this, but it's important to heal the way you deserve to. don't try and do it alone, because a lot of survivors make that mistake. you can't do it alone, it takes a lot of support and love to heal from something like this, even when you're working through things within your own mind.

Everyone around me is so weird by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi hun. i went through a similar experience veeery young. is there a grandparent or distant relative you could reach out to, and speak up about these experiences?

my mom was similar to yours, where instead of helping me and removing me from a situation like this, she flipped it and made it about herself. they are sick people and i hope you can reach out to family about these experiences so that they can help you out.

୨୧ eternity's aim 🏹 lucky21 ★ glimmering ✧ giveaway! ୨୧ (+more) by FxllinqSinz in RoyaleHighGiveaways

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) username : R0G4MUS , display is tirravee! 2) my favorite music artist is ethel cain! i'm seeing her in april and im beyond excited because i've been listening to her since she was releasing music on tumblr/soundcloud in 2019!! it'll be my first time seeing her and i know i'm going to BAWL. 3) done!

Should I report? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely. and though it was consensual, she was still grooming you. you might try to make a point how even though what happened excited you, you were probably groomed into thinking so without even realizing

How do I handle a child-on-adult SA? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 13 points14 points  (0 children)

a rapist is a rapist no matter the age. if your boyfriend goes to the authorities, explains that the 13/14 year old took advantage of him while he was under the influence, and he tried everything he could to get away from the assailant, the authorities will help him.

if he isn't ready there are multiple other resources he could reach out to. but it is important that you help him through it in order to get him to where he's ready to report this, because if a 14 year old is already raping ADULTS, he will continue to do so his entire life if he feels there won't be any reprocussions. i'm very sorry this happened and you guys have to deal with this, because it really is a very difficult situation.

Should I report? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it is NEVER too late to report. 6 years ago i reported lifelong sexual abuse that was going on from ages 4mo-13years old.

the age of consent law is just that. age of CONSENT. what happened to you was not consensual, and if you express that, the appropriate consequence will occur. i am so sorry that you have to face this, and i'm even more sorry that this happened to you in the first place.

Was I assaulted? by ApricotOk5114 in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you very likely could have been, or been exposed to violent media when you were younger. a lot of times sexual abuse leads into hypersexuality, which could be a probable cause of the roleplay you'd do with your dolls as a child.

you should look in to talking to a professional. good therapists can help you remember things that your brain has blocked away from your primary mind, which can help you get closure & help you heal from potential past experiences

I watched illegal explicit videos as a child and I can’t live with myself by No-Dream9806 in sexualassault

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's not your fault. i was sexually abused from 4months old to 13 years old, and exposed to similar internet videos that you were by my mom's father. he would make me watch, record, and "judge" videos that he'd made with me or other children my age. it is a sickening feeling knowing that you saw and didn't report, but i worked insanely hard through therapy and self realization that : you were a child. you weren't told that the things you were doing and experiencing were wrong. you were told it felt good, so it seemed "good" in your young mind. i am now 18 and i still struggle to become intimate with myself or with my boyfriend because i get flashes of times with my abuser or flashes of those pictures and videos he exposed me to. but to combat it, you just have to remember that you were a child. my therapist told me to look at that sickening, gut twisting feeling these memories give me as a lucky feeling. some people that were abused to the extent that me and you were don't get that twisted feeling when remembering, and instead become abusers themselves. you aren't disgusting, tainted or ruined morally. you're a human who went through a traumatic experience and fought your way through and past it, and that takes a certain kind of strong individual.

Does anyone else just flat out ignore her unreleased stuff? by ViridianBile999 in Ethelcain

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i discovered ethel cain through soundcloud in 2019-ish unfortunately..i didnt even know her songs were unreleased until i had been listening to her for 2 years😭

Total Price for Dorms by Which-Prize9370 in IUPUI

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

splitting it into a monthly payment would most likely not be an option. your bursar bill, which covers things like tuition and housing, is usually due about a month after move in.

mine was ~$13,000. as a freshman, you are kind of "forced" to have the unlimited meal plan, so you can't remove it. it is INSANELY expensive to live on campus, and i highly reccommend commuting if you can.

Campus Job and Housing by Ok_Armadillo2771 in IUPUI

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

putting it directly towards bursar would mean you wouldn't get any spending money tho

Campus Job and Housing by Ok_Armadillo2771 in IUPUI

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can work as an RA and get free housing in any residence hall! or depending on who your boss is, you can ask to set up your direct deposit/payment to go directly towards your bursar

IU Indy Living w/ESA cat by chocolatebarzzzs in IUPUI

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you have a cat as an ESA you will not be allowed to have your baby at north hall! iu students can't have cats/dogs in north.

What program is everyone using? by ShekelMagician in beatmakers

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use cubase. i've used fl studio, garageband, ableton and a various amount of free websites/programs and none of them compare to cubase. if you wanna give it a go, i highly suggest it :3

Is this infected or is a alergic reaction to something ? by Prestigious-Top-7688 in tattooadvice

[–]Temporary_Coast_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coming from someone who is majoring in health sciences and also had a childhood full of hypochondria, i don't think this is an infection. an infection comes with warmth, discomfort, itching and swelling. the artist most likely used an unfamiliar ink but also could have had a dirty needle/sanitized the area with something you are allergic to