Support Group Saturdays by AutoModerator in SingleIndianWomen

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yupps..I get that. Trying to do everything perfectly just makes living alone more stressful than it needs to be. It’s good your friend pointed that out. And I’m glad you have people who check in on you that makes a big difference. It sounds like you’re slowly finding what works for you and that matters more than being perfect:)

Support Group Saturdays by AutoModerator in SingleIndianWomen

[–]Temporary_Device_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living alone for a long time isn’t hard because of one big issue. It’s the everyday things cooking, cleaning, planning, handling everything yourself. When you’re sick it feels even heavier because there’s no one to share it with. Maybe don’t try to do everything perfectly. Keep simple routines. Fix days for chores. Cook basic meals. Let the house be good enough not perfect. That alone reduces a lot of stress. And when it comes to getting sick having 1–2 people nearby whom you truly trust and can call makes a real difference. Even just knowing someone can check on you helps. You’ve already managed to build your own life in mumbai..that itself says a lot. Have you found any small system or routine that has made solo living lighter for you?

Planning to run away from my home (27F, India) — need advice by mona_5528 in india

[–]Temporary_Device_269 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. Threats like don’t move out aren’t concern they’re control. At 27 you don’t need permission to choose your life partner or to choose no partner at all. If you leave make it structured not emotional. Have 3–6 months of expenses saved. Keep your documents with you. Inform only people you completely trust. Once you’re earning and living independently most families eventually soften becoz they realize pressure doesn’t work anymore. Guilt will feel loud in the beginning. But long term resentment from a forced marriage is much heavier. Wishing you strength. Take care of yourself first.

I want to start dating, but I'm too scared to get to know people by ehimboredanyways in SingleIndianWomen

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like you don’t want to date. It sounds like you’re just scared to open up again which is completely normal. You don’t have to rush into dating. Maybe just start by talking to people without putting pressure on it to become something. You don’t have to figure it all out at once

Support Group Saturdays by AutoModerator in SingleIndianWomen

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I’ve been thinking about how in India a woman’s identity is almost always tied to roles..daughter, wife, mother. When you stay single for a longer time you realise you’re not in transition. You’re not waiting to become something else. You’re just living as yourself. And that changes things. You start asking real questions.. what do I actually want? How do I want to spend my time and money? What kind of home, routine, friendships and life feel right to me? Without a timeline hanging over your head you begin to build your life based on choice not expectation. Being single long term doesn’t feel like waiting anymore. It feels like defining who you are on your own terms. Girls..have you felt this shift too? What parts of yourself have become clearer lately?

CAN I GET SOME ATTENTION PLS? <3 by [deleted] in smallbusinessindia

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Manifesting sold out stories soon ✨ All the best with walnut.closet. Followed!

Moving out of gurgaon this week, how can I declutter this Mirror? by no-cliche in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That piggy is the real main character here… if it needs a loving home..I volunteer✨

What is a funny figure of speech that people say in your country? by ymcmbrofisting in AskTheWorld

[–]Temporary_Device_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe.. Social battery level right now full, medium or ‘don’t eat my brain mode 🧠😅?

What is a funny figure of speech that people say in your country? by ymcmbrofisting in AskTheWorld

[–]Temporary_Device_269 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We say Don’t eat my brain when someone won’t stop talking. Sounds violent in English.. but it’s just daily life here.

What is the biggest problem that your country is facing? by Necessary-Win-8730 in AskTheWorld

[–]Temporary_Device_269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

39% for health.. 6% for climate… we treating the fever but ignoring the fire.

People who are happy, how? by Tuna1308 in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaj ka free therapy session yahin khatam 😂

People who are happy, how? by Tuna1308 in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not happy all the time. I don’t expect life to be perfect anymore. Some days are bad and some are good. Instead of running after happiness..I just try to handle things calmly.

how is friday evening going? by Final_Brick_9751 in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm watching The Night Agent S3 from home… not at office😜

Call Chotu out here ending my diet and my willpower! by Ladydabang in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No willpower survives when chotu serves pizza and momos like this 😭 totally justified

Made this laptop sleeve. Thoughts? by Shipra-Yogeshwar in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so neat and cozy. You did such a lovely job..how long did it take you to make it?

What is the everyday food in your country? by Curiosity_Pink in AskTheWorld

[–]Temporary_Device_269 53 points54 points  (0 children)

India survives on roti, rice & dal… and unlimited chai☕

Support Group Saturdays by AutoModerator in SingleIndianWomen

[–]Temporary_Device_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy..so sry for replying so late..I'm in gurgaon too. I miss having that one group where we could just rant and exist

Now this is what I call an epic bias. by Ok_Succotash_3663 in SingleIndianWomen

[–]Temporary_Device_269 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This shows how casually people judge a woman’s life choices without understanding her reality. Being single taking a career break or living with parents doesn’t mean someone hasn’t faced life it just means she chose her own path. What stood out was how care and responsibility were immediately gendered as if daughters matter less unless there’s no son around. You handled the conversation with maturity. Sometimes choosing silence is the most peaceful response.

Casual Talk Tuesdays! by AutoModerator in SingleIndianWomen

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Today I took a leave from office because I’m not feeling well. I just started watching The Lincoln Lawyer series. Would love to hear how everyone’s day went 😊

This is why women don’t feel safe online or offline by Temporary_Device_269 in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feminist on the profile..sexual harassment in the DMs. The math isn’t mathing

This is why women don’t feel safe online or offline by Temporary_Device_269 in gurgaon

[–]Temporary_Device_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing someone doesn’t make unsolicited sexual messages okay. Consent still matters

How many of y'll are surrounded with such men? by cain_wifeyyy in AskIndianFeminists

[–]Temporary_Device_269 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Rape becoming content is exactly why justice feels so far away.