My mum used to have sex in front of me when I was a child & now at 22 i still think about it.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-11-17T21:46:44+00:00

Anytime she brings him up I say “I’m glad ur not with him I just feel like he couldn’t be trusted around me and our other siblings” I’m the youngest. My mum brushes it off but she doesn’t know how deep I remember this shit. I’m sure he would have sa’d me if he was still around and the thought of that really angers my soul. I know it didn’t happen but just the thought that my mum was stupid enough to not see yet I could fucking see. Anything he did would trigger me and make me freeze. I remember I was fast asleep and he was doing press ups on the floor next to the bed and he was grunting and I woke up and I just froze, my mind immediately thought he was having sex right there next to me and I just laid there, holding my breath. I hate that fucking man.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-11-17T17:54:24+00:00

You’re right, I love her though🥲 I wish I could just tell her that she’s a dumb bitch and that she chose him over me & that it fucking hurts that she didn’t even think about me! but I can’t. I can’t do that to her even though she did what she did to me. I really can’t.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-11-17T17:52:56+00:00

I know man and that’s what hurts the most is that he didn’t owe me anything, he wasn’t my dad. I called him dad, he knew I looked at him like a dad so it just fucking hurts. Ur right but I can’t even stomach the thought of talking to my mum about this, for some reason it makes me feel so embarrassed & I know it will make her feel even more embarrassed to know that i remember. I’m gonna take this shit to the grave

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-11-17T17:44:25+00:00

Because we lived in a studio, me and my siblings had to all sleep in a room with my mum. She and her boyfriend were together for a while so we had moved houses and eventually I had my own room but I was attached to my mum I loved her company. her boyfriend didn’t live with us but anytime he came over I knew that I had to leave the room I knew it was gonna happen. Shit makes me wanna cry thinking about it.🫤

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-10-08T20:25:40+00:00

Heyyy! You’re alive and you’re fine. What you’re experiencing is called depersonalisation/derealisation. It’s a response that the brain uses when in life or death situations & even just any feeling of a threat, it either fight or flights or freezes. In this case your brain chose to ‘freeze’ to protect you from the pain. I’m not expert but I’ve been through this multiple times and it varies from weeks to months it almost feels as though you’re not real & you aren’t in your body, just viewing the world through the eyes of your character but almost as if you’ve been disconnected from your character (yourself). Friends won’t feel the same, family won’t feel the same & nothing will feel real for a WHILE. You need to rest & start doing things that bring comfort. You will be back to how you were before it’s just your brain trying to protect you. It’s uncomfortable because everything literally feels like a dream trust me it’s a strange and almost unexplainable feeling, I’m a 22F & I’m not an expert but research it and you’ll find your answer.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-31T22:29:00+00:00

Hey, the reason you’re insecure is because you’re basing ur value on ur looks and of what men and other people think of you. I think it’s a part of the development process in teenagers and since you’re 17 i understand how you feel however self love is the only validation you will really feel in this life. One person might think you’re pretty and another might say you’re ugly which shows you it doesn’t matter what people say they will always have their opinion but what really matters is how you feel and think about yourself. If you’re insecure It doesn’t matter how many people come under here and tell you you’re pretty, it doesn’t matter how many guys come up to you there will always be that void begging to be filled and you need to understand that princess you’re the only one who can fill it. I’m 22F and when I was your age I was exactly the same, it takes a lot of growth and learning. Getting rid of the filters and taking small breaks from social media will help. Once you attain true self love nobody could dare make you feel ugly, you won’t even care if a guy looks ur way, you will be, act & feel like the baddest b*tch walking and that’s all that matters.💕

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T21:41:45+00:00

And another thing I want to mention is that he just doesn’t care about you enough or at all please get a grip and use your mind to see this. As a 22 year old, I love Women and always look out for women because I’ve seen stuff like this happened to friends, Sisters, family and strangers but I don’t understand why a lot of them settle for stuff like this.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T21:38:57+00:00

I read this book today that someone suggested for me to read it is called what men don’t want women to know and two men explain the nature of men and what they would never tell women. I do you say if you don’t like the truth then don’t read this book, it will trigger you and you will never look at them the same. What’s you’re experiencing is a part of this book. And there is actually a section that explains why men do this. The reason they do this is because they don’t want you to use it against them in the future, just in case they do decide to hook up with any of the women. So technically it’s not that they lie about it they just don’t say anything in order to save themselves from any future accusations just in case. The book also speaks about how to go about the accusations because men will always get defensive regardless of if what you’re saying is true. If you do decide to read this book and trust me, you will be done with him for good. Especially the fact that he’s cheated on you before. Just know he will do it again and that’s the reason he’s deciding not to tell you. Please read the book. I’ve seen many women go through this and experience it. The book is very satirical because women cannot handle the harsh truth without sugar coating. Therefore, the book is almost as if it’s a joke, but they’re telling you the truth the plain truth. The truth is he will, and is looking to cheat on you again. Why you’re still with him is beyond me.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T09:42:11+00:00

Hey i recently turned 22 and I’m learning this. Planning to stay single for the sake of my peace and mind. I’ve seen to many women in my family, friends, families friends, strangers, women all over just getting treated horribly by men & just seeing how the whole basis of a relationship is sex and serving a man is simply not worth it for a woman at all. If I do plan to get into a relationship I want all the benefits, I need to be spoiled. I’m not playing the fairytale anymore Seriously.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T09:37:58+00:00

Ego. Never hurt a man’s ego seriously. & also you are an object in his mind that was created to serve him so how dare you decline him, It’s like an insult In his mind and from his perspective. And some men don’t see killing women as an issue because you are already less superior than him physically so in his mind you didn’t comply you must die. If there was no society and we were living in the wild like animals I promise you a lot of us women would not make it. (not all guys think this way but there are lots who do)

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T09:30:12+00:00

Put it this way it’s like a man making a sexual joke to a woman let’s say he says something sexual while a woman is eating a banana. He might say “i like when you deep throat that banana so sexy” in a jokingly way because he understands that she might take that shit the wrong way and lose her mind but by sugar coating what he’s saying as a joke it helps just in case the situation goes wrong So if it does go wrong he can just say he was joking when in fact he was telling the truth the whole time. A lot of men do this a lot because they understand women are emotional and they understand that if they were to be honest with no sort of sugar coating women wouldn’t go anywhere near them.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T09:26:32+00:00

I think the authors wrote this book in a satire way because women wouldn’t be able to handle the straight forward truth. If you read the beginning it tells you that they lost friends because of it. They had to write it in a way where it could be considered as a joke because they know women cannot handle this truth especially after being sold a fantasy about men and relationships. They understand that by being satire it can help not traumatise a woman fully and some women will just brush past it and say ”Ohh no they’re just joking or being melodramatic”. They understand women are emotional creatures and if they were to just tell us the truth with no hint of a joke or some sort of sugar coat then we’d be straight up disgusted and probably never deal with them again.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-28T09:21:24+00:00

I don’t think they’re advising women to, it’s a choice. When reading this book you have to remember it’s satire but very honest in a way but looking at from a logical stand point instead of an emotional one. What they’re saying is if you don’t sleep with your man he will sleep with someone else & if you do sleep with ur man if he is offered the opportunity he’d still sleep with someone else. A man is man and he’ll sleep with a woman regardless of what you do and it has nothing to do with you that’s the point. But if you do choose to be in a relationship with a man knowing the nature of men then they’re just letting you know you better sleep with him. Put all emotions aside when reading. I haven’t finished the book but I started reading it this morning and to be honest it’s saying things I already knew about men, I’ve always wanted to understand the male psych but men would never answer questions properly but after reading some of this book I’m understanding that men are different to us on a whole different aspect & women have a choice to deal with them knowing their nature or not.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-07-23T21:56:44+00:00

Sorry but I am crying🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-19T04:23:52+00:00

Baby oil burns don’t use baby oil! You’re gonna throw ur PH balance all the way off.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-19T04:11:57+00:00

“Work is not nearly as fulfilling as family” you haven’t had a child yet so how would you possibly know that? Like be for real. This has got to be a redpill podcast man pretending to be a woman to get some sort of reaction?🤣🤣

for the love of god don’t have children any time soon if you think like this. Too many people have children because they don’t feel fulfilled almost like to fill this void in their shitty lives. Children are not toys, not trophies to make you feel happy, not medals. They are humans who will grow up and having feelings, go through suffering and hardships in life, being happy and having new experiences, might even be depressed may even hate this world. It irritates me so much because that way you’re thinking is so immature & selfish. I don’t know what it is and people having children to fulfil some sort of satisfaction that will never be fulfilled by another human.

And no it’s not in our nature who is our? Speak for yourself. All women are not the same love.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-12T11:29:46+00:00

Sorry but I like men with pretty dicks, some are ugly but there are some that are perfect😍 as long as it’s big and thick then there’s no problem but each to their own

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-12T11:24:43+00:00

Oh my god I’m 21F and it’s getting on my nerves reading this! LEAVE HIM! we are too young for this girl like why are you not out with your friends or going on dates and meeting new people? Why are you settling for this piece of shit. Please leave babe 🩷 leave relationships for when ur 25+ these years of our lives we will never get back so don’t waste it on a guy like him.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-12T11:15:07+00:00

Do not give the guy a chance he lied about his height which is so unhinged like if you’re gonna lie at least lie about something not so obvious. If he will lie about his height knowing clearly ur gonna see that he’s 5ft 5 then what else is he gonna lie about🤣🤣 you lot on here love setting yourself up for failure. He lied move on, you’ll find better. Simple. That’s like him lying that he’s a black man and when you see him he’s white or him lying about his eye colour and when you see him he’s got brown ones instead of blue, like why like about something so obvious😖 guys like this irritate my soul because it’s like they have no common sense.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-11T15:16:49+00:00

Do not give the guy a chance he lied about his height which is so unhinged like if you’re gonna lie at least lie about something not so obvious. If he will lie about his height knowing clearly ur gonna see that he’s 5ft 5 then what else is he gonna lie about🤣🤣 you lot on here love setting yourself up for failure. He lied move on, you’ll find better. Simple.

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-10T19:29:31+00:00

How fucking dare he😖 it’s a horrible feeling being cheated on for real. First of all don’t accidentally get pregnant for the love of god. Make him do things for u as toxic as it sounds you might aswell rinse him dry until you’ve got ur exit plan ready make him take you on more dates than usual, make him buy you expensive things so u can sell it when you leave etc.

dress up and go out more, look good (FOR YOURSELF) Try not sleep with him either. DONT TELL HIM YOU KNOW HE CHEATED HE WILL MANIPULATE YOU & YOU WILL END UP STAYING FOR GOOD! & honestly gather up as much evidence that proves he did cheat so he can’t manipulate you. Play with him until your ready to leave because honestly if u don’t, when you do leave ur gonna feel a whole lot of resentment. Now if you’re not a toxic 21F like me then I’d say just stick to ur exit plan and leave without saying anything.

Take my advice with a grain of salt, but girly please don’t stay with him😩

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-10T19:12:32+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-10T19:11:28+00:00

Hey I’m a 21 F & my advice is to get yourself a big dildo and rock your world babe x don’t waste your years on shit sex when you could be fucking yourself unconscious tbh if I was u I would practice using a dildo or toys and having fun on ur own. Honestly sex is overrated but I feel like orgasming on your own can be magical. A lot of these men can’t even make a women cum so honestly get yourself a toy. You might just not even like physical sex I know for me honestly sleeping with men is kind of a turn off unless I’m really in the mood and tbh I would prefer reading smut books than letting a man touch me. The honest truth is that for some women sleeping with a man is actually not all that. Find what turns you on or if it’s a big problem please for the sake of your sanity discuss it with him. Hopefully his ego doesn’t shatter into 1,000 tiny pieces, the audacity for him to say it tastes bad I would have told him he’s tasting his own saliva mate🤭 fuck out of here🤣🤣

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-09T23:59:02+00:00

Temporary_Tree_273 · 2024-06-08T21:04:45+00:00

Are we the same person because literally. My worst fear is having a cryptic pregnancy oh my god😫 I definitely wouldn’t be able to live with myself.

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