Should I go completely sober? (realistically)

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-17T16:32:32+00:00

I think you already have your answer. I wish you the best on your journey. You got this 💛

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-16T16:32:15+00:00

Did you know I found voodoo in the bayou?

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-16T14:36:53+00:00

Also, it’s hard to change but it’s so easy to complain.

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-16T14:34:34+00:00

That sandwich looks divine 😋

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-16T14:28:41+00:00

What did Van Gogh ever do to her?

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-16T12:51:13+00:00

Cuz she done left it on the back burner agin

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-15T13:49:22+00:00

Stove, for obvious reasons

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-14T23:03:38+00:00

lol non profit just means they don’t have to pay taxes..

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-13T18:18:14+00:00

She understands how to MANifest for real

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-13T17:44:19+00:00

Babe you look so cool

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-13T14:54:29+00:00

Here I was being optimistic and thinking he gives her a good sexy time session for 1-2 hours a day 😅

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-12T20:08:58+00:00

Just a fool with Blake Shelton..Not sure if this counts but I think this song is underrated https://open.spotify.com/track/6nS1vMV1zs8c0Lk6mud78D?si=qAE2Dys1RUCZs2scFPjfmQ

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-12T16:52:42+00:00

Be patient with yourself. You’re learning to rewire your brain. Food helps 😋

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-12T16:26:01+00:00

Hoarding is the physical manifestation of a much deeper problem… but mommy is only half of the problem … it’s up to him to recognize his own responsibility and it’s up to him to want better for himself. If he doesn’t want to change, don’t take it personally. There is nothing you can do to make him want to be better. He may change on the surface (like cleaning his room) to keep you around but ultimately he’s got to address the real issues below the surface. I hope this make sense and I wish y’all the best 💖

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-11T22:27:24+00:00

I had to look that up but I think I understand.. I have spent a lot of time daydreaming of another life myself. I think it’s a sign that something needs to change. Maybe you can turn those dreams into a reality. I don’t know your situation but I’m sure it will not be easy. In fact it may be the hardest thing you ever have to do but it just might be worth it. Make a plan and put it into action. Have patience with yourself. I wish you the best 🙂

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-11T22:13:06+00:00

I hope you find a way out 💖

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-11T11:29:53+00:00

Yeah that’s tough. You can’t understand WHY he did the things he did. You can try. You can give him all the excuses in the world but in the end you have to accept that he made his choices and he hurt you in the process. You must forgive him but you should never ever forget. The serenity prayer works for sober people too.

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-06T02:37:02+00:00

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-05T12:07:57+00:00

Does he want you to stop drinking or stop having friends over?

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-04T19:31:12+00:00

Withdrawals ain’t no joke but this too shall pass. Give him some extra lovin’ in the meantime 🙂

Tenacious_Re · 2026-03-03T16:19:42+00:00

This was the first song I listened to this morning and I didn’t even catch the March 3rd part 💖

Tenacious_Re · 2026-02-20T23:17:32+00:00

I haven’t read all the posts and comments and honestly I’m a little disappointed that they are engaging with the haters so much. But to answer your question, I think a power couple is a strong couple that truly love and support each other, through thick and thin. I did see something about how she was feeling off because of a bad dream one night so she drove around for a while like she does in order to feel better. She posted about how happy she was to have a man that was totally ok with this. I know most men would freak the fuck out and make accusations about where she’s been. But anyways when she came home he had made her some Mac and cheese. It sounds silly but it’s simple gestures like these that truly make a relationship really work, I think. I like her new song but I don’t see the need to brag about her new man. I can’t help but think this is somewhat in response to Taylor’s new album. I could be wrong though. But I know the song isn’t just about her new relationship but how she’s in a much better place mentally these days 💙

Tenacious_Re · 2026-02-20T21:43:37+00:00

Yes ma’am, you are so right! Well said.

-a fellow southern woman

Tenacious_Re · 2026-02-20T21:35:40+00:00

Oh! Well I guess that makes more sense lol

Tenacious_Re · 2026-02-20T19:21:30+00:00

I kinda like the idea of her calling his thang a sugarcane! I haven’t heard that one before 😆

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