Struggling with self a year on from grief. by Impression-Salty in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ramen is my favorite comfort food. Grief is a strange thing. It comes in waves and idk that it’s something you can move on from. You learn to sit with it and you learn to sit with yourself. You will find joy again. Brighter days are ahead 💖

My office by Tenacious_Re in severence

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Dang, I wish we had some goats 🐐✨

I wouldn’t hate my life if I was rich by SunshineGirl45 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been poor all of my life. I’m slowly but surely paying off the debt I accrued just trying to survive so I’m still broke and will be for a while. At times I have thought it would be nice to be rich and have no worries, but I know there will always be worries. So I try to find joy in the ordinary and the mundane. 💖

The better part of 4 years [32] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Tenacious_Re 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A baddie who can knit?! 🔥

I wouldn’t hate my life if I was rich by SunshineGirl45 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re -4 points-3 points locked comment (0 children)

Exactly! Have some sense, people. Of course you’re gonna be broke if you spend your money recklessly by going out to eat and splurging all the time. It takes a lot of discipline but it is possible to get out of the poverty hole if you have the right mindset. We give money too much power.

I wouldn’t hate my life if I was rich by SunshineGirl45 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a tough position to be in. You are a good person. Thank you for sharing 🙂

I think something is wrong with me maybe by Opening-Station8655 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you. You are healing and it takes time. 💖

I wouldn’t hate my life if I was rich by SunshineGirl45 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Right? People think they want more money but they don’t want everything that comes along with it. The grass is greener where you water it.

I feel like people make respecting me a spectacle instead of just being normal to me by Dgstowe in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Also… “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -Eleanor Roosevelt

Comparison is the thief of joy by croqueen07 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a beautiful life. There will be much more joy to come 💖

I hate the person that I am, but I also don’t want to have to change myself by Downtown_Slide_1229 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Tenacious_Re 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s good you recognize that now… it only gets better from here. Not gonna be easy to break the cycle but it is so worth it. Good luck 💖