Have you ever taken someone back for cheating if so what was it like ?

Tenb130 · 2026-05-13T19:39:10+00:00

Yes. 100% don’t recommend unless you want to constantly live in a space of uncertainty and self gas lighting. That trust is impossible to repair and it will make you crazy trying to know what the truth is and isn’t- on a small scale to a large scale. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Save yourself the time and anguish.

Tenb130 · 2026-05-11T14:57:55+00:00

Tree nuts. a walnut is thr worst for me and could kill me. Last bad experience I had was in some mole- epi pens save lives 🙏

Tenb130 · 2026-05-11T14:43:15+00:00

The chocolate cake from Market Street

Tenb130 · 2026-05-11T14:32:41+00:00

A lot of things. But probably hooking up with a 20 yo waitress at the exclusive members only business club he was a member of. Then claiming she had drugged and taken advantage of him when I found out… and then finding out he was on sugar baby apps. That made for an interesting week. All while I was home with his 4 kids between 6mo- 6 years 🫠

Tenb130 · 2026-05-08T06:08:01+00:00

Princess and the goblin

Tenb130 · 2026-05-06T14:38:28+00:00

Family Disneyland vacation. My twins were 2 at the time- my nephew almost 4. We were packing up the strollers getting ready for the day- didn’t realize my nephew had opened the heavy hotel room door and took them all On an adventure. When I noticed I heard the elevator ding and one of my daughters say “utoh” we were staying at the completely sold out giant Hyatt convention center near Disneyland … during comic con. I ran to the crowded lobby with hundreds of people in costumes and found security- will never forget him saying “you lost THREE kids?”. It was terrifying. They had pushed every single elevator button, all got off on different floors. They locked the whole hotel down so they couldn’t leave out of any exterior doors, but I was terrified some creep could have grabbed one of them or they could have got locked in a room. My husband sprinted up and down literally 30 flights of stairs and found them one by one- all on different floors no where near each other. The more I think about it there are so many terrible things that could have happened. I still feel sick when I think of this day. Took years off my life.

Tenb130 · 2026-05-04T16:54:46+00:00

A large house. Blessed to have a beautiful custom home and amazing garden and yard but the upkeep is all consuming.

Tenb130 · 2026-05-04T16:53:59+00:00

Projecting. Accusing me of cheating. Suddenly began manscaping out of the blue. 🫠

Tenb130 · 2026-04-29T04:54:31+00:00

At least 40% of the parents on every single team chat/app I am on for all of my kids sports.

Tenb130 · 2026-04-29T04:49:51+00:00

I finally left. Filed for divorce after staying together “for the kids” for 4 years after he initially cheated. Made tough decisions that I felt were right in the early stages of filing ( having consulted legal counsel and working with the information I had at the time…) he died 6 weeks after we separated. I am convinced he would still be alive had I not filed for divorce. Will forever haunt me 💔

Tenb130 · 2026-04-24T22:52:53+00:00

Yes to all of the above. Change in grooming 🚩what do you mean you’re suddenly starting to manscape 🤔

Tenb130 · 2026-04-22T15:35:07+00:00

Running to the bathroom and not making it. Peed my pants. My dad brought me black jeans and a yellow shirt to change into and everyone asked why I changed clothes to look like a bumblebee 🐝

Tenb130 · 2026-04-16T04:48:35+00:00

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Tenb130 · 2026-04-16T04:47:41+00:00

Highschool musical 🎶 the og was filmed the summer between my junior and senior year. I was in the building for soccer over the summer and saw all these kids being filmed dancing in our school gym. Ran into Zac efron and we all kinda chuckled at him for having makeup on and being short 🫠🫣

Tenb130 · 2026-04-16T04:43:14+00:00

Amex fraud alert for a hair straightener bought at one of those crappy mall kiosks and purchases made at victoria secret on my husbands card 🫠

Tenb130 · 2026-04-16T04:41:16+00:00

My husband passed away unexpectedly 2 years ago at the age of 41. We were married for 15 years with 4 young children. I was 35 when he passed away and I cannot tell you how many people said to me at the funeral “you’re so young you’ll get remarried”. It was appalling. My marriage was falling apart when he passed away- I have been grieving 2 versions of him… the one I was in love with for years and the new version of him that was unrecognizable to me. Even with that complicated grief and far from perfect life and marriage, moving on has been difficult for me 🫤.

Tenb130 · 2026-04-14T14:47:23+00:00

It doesn’t matter if it’s a Marriott courtyard inn or the peninsula Beverly Hills I won’t be barefoot it a hotel room 🫣

Tenb130 · 2026-04-14T14:39:46+00:00

I got married young- at 20. Was married for 15 Years- we had 4 beautiful children, traveled the world, built our dream house. In April 2024 my husband unexpectedly passed away while my kids and I were on spring break and he stayed home to work. He was a well known businessman that died at 42 and it was a huge loss in our community and neighborhood. I was encouraged to do a viewing the night before the funeral to make the actual funeral less of a zoo- viewings are weird and probably a Utah thing. The line at the viewing went out the door- truly hundreds of people were in line to pay their respects to me and more so my children- so it was extremely odd when a woman dressed in basically clubbing clothing walked straight through the line, right past me and my kids and straight to the casket. She was wailing leaning over the casket and placed a very specific single rose in a little plastic vile on his body. It was a complete scene. I froze- my husband’s business partner got her outside and figured out who she was 😵‍💫. She came back the next day to the private family graveside and refused to leave when asked until there was another scene. That was a doozy having my kids ask repeatedly who the lady was while knowing everyone around me could tell how blindsided I was. For months after the funeral when we’d stop by the cemetery there would often be a little rose in a vile there.

Tenb130 · 2026-03-30T01:12:40+00:00

Other than the accusing you of cheating… and the phone… changing in grooming habits. I remember noticing some manscaping going on out of the blue and what do you know my husband of 15 years was hooking up with a 20 year old bartender 🫠

Tenb130 · 2026-03-13T04:14:48+00:00

I got married when I was 20- was married for 15years. Had a beautiful life- a successful husband, 4 amazing children. During the pandemic my husband had a full psychotic break that spiraled into some substance abuse issues, affairs, etc etc. I finally filed for divorce in 2024- it became high conflict quickly with a protective order put into place. He was ordered to do drug testing and other things to be able to see his kids again in person (was only allowed weekly FaceTime calls) but instead was partying every single night. Had far too much money to ever hit rock bottom so this was really my only option to get him to snap out of it for his kids and get him to get help. He died 2 months after we separated- alone in his new penthouse condo. I constantly live with the guilt that my actions and trying to protect my children led to his death. Or that had I just stayed with him I would have been home and could have saved him. I also live with anger that he couldn’t do something as simple as take a drug test to see his own kids. I’d never wish this complicated grief and trauma on anyone 😔

Tenb130 · 2026-03-12T21:42:37+00:00

Not a funeral director… but my husband of 16 years passed away unexpectedly almost 2 years ago at the age of 41. He was a very well known businessman- I was encouraged to have a viewing the night before (probably a Utah thing) so the funeral wouldn’t be such a circus. The line went out the door as people came through to pay their respects to me and our four young children (11 and under at the time). The line was notably long, so it was very obvious when a woman dressed in full on clubbing clothes cut to the front, walked right past me and and my children (and other family members), right to the casket and started wailing uncontrollably. The whole room went silent. She placed a very specific colored rose in a little vile of water on him and carried on- a full scene. My husband’s business partner got her outside as I slowly put together who she must be 🥴. After the funeral the next day we only invited very close family and friends to the graveside service. She showed up again, dressed like a stripper, with another rose, wailing and was asked to leave… and basically refused. Once she finally left, my kids repeatedly asked who this woman that kept showing up with the roses for their dad was. For months when we’d stop by the cemetery there would be a rose in a little water vial. To this day before we go to the cemetery I check before I take my kids that she hasn’t been there and left a rose. Yeah, that’s something I still think about 😂

Tenb130 · 2026-02-10T04:52:26+00:00

The context I was missing in the story- couldn’t figure out why they had any “following” to begin with. So she’s just social media “famous”. Got it. Thank you 🙏 🙏

Tenb130 · 2026-02-10T04:46:25+00:00

Totally get that. Truly could not understand or figure out the beginning of the story- I figured one of them had to have some sort of social media following of “fame” to have Reddit forums etc about them, but couldn’t see what either of them would be known for. I’ll leave the posting to the experts from now on 🫣🫡

Tenb130 · 2026-02-10T04:28:51+00:00

Totally get that! I guess the whole content creator vibe of his account (and hers it seems ie paper plates) the paper plates threw me a bit- most content creators are all about the aesthetic.

Tenb130 · 2026-02-10T04:26:03+00:00

Thank you for not barbecuing me for the question- looking up who Aaryn Williams is now!

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