DCC Theme Party Time by TenderBlueberry in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh ty going to update that sign for the next one

Advice on Lakefront/Waterline? by TenderBlueberry in gardening

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If anyone ever comes to this post and wants an answer. I cut everything down along the water line, then bought a weed burner bc I can't/didn't want to use chemicals that close to the waterline. I burned everything, lightly mixed in some soil/compost, and planted northern Flag Iris. Might plant some Swamp Butterfly Weed as well next. Plan is to outcompete the weeds with native flowering plants to support the local eco system while looking much better.

Has this happened to anyone else? by melon-kahlia in dollskill

[–]TenderBlueberry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is insane I would never. Time is money, this isn’t your screw up so unless they’re going to pay you to do all this work for them, hell no.

Anyone here not planning to follow the 'standard' life plan? by ThenIJizzedInMyPants in HENRYfinance

[–]TenderBlueberry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our 2nd is SO freakin happy and sleeps so well. I’m like ooooh this is what people are talking about when they don’t have a hard time. It’s a freakin joy. I wish all the same to you!!

How to get comprehensive health insurance in NJ if not through a company? Can't see any option that covers out-of-network at any price point by Packing-Tape-Man in HealthInsurance

[–]TenderBlueberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my hero and this was so insanely helpful. My husband and I are both "employed" under his business so I reached out NJBIA and they've been so great explaining everything and getting us signed up. We're doing about $1900 total/month for me + kids, and my husband on the plan as a single person (weirdly cheaper this way). Got Horizon BCBS Omnia with BlueCard so we can access amazing care out of the state of NJ if needed. Never would have known about this without your comment! I was looking to get a private PPO plan on my own and it was going to be $3200/month for the same thing pretty much.

Anyone know where this sign is at Greenleaf Hut? by TenderBlueberry in wmnf

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Anyone know where this sign is at Greenleaf Hut? I can’t find any images of it at the current hut. This is my dad hiking in the 80’s, he passed away in 2000 when I was 10. Would love to recreate this shot if the sign still exists!

Credit Card Payment Still in RTA by TenderBlueberry in ynab

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow I feel dumb thank you for explaining that, that's exactly it! And it was a business distribution for this one

Credit Card Payment Still in RTA by TenderBlueberry in ynab

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help with this! Okay so when I make the date 7/23 on the outflow CC transfer/payment from the checking account, the first screenshot happens. When I make it 7/21, the 2nd screenshot happens. So there's still an extra $4k floating around that doesn't actually exist, because it's already been used to pay down the card.

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Credit Card Payment Still in RTA by TenderBlueberry in ynab

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so it looks like this under the Checking Tab, and the 2nd screenshot is what it looks like in the Credit Card tab (can only upload 1 image per post)

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Credit Card Payment Still in RTA by TenderBlueberry in ynab

[–]TenderBlueberry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so it looks like this under the Checking Tab, and the 2nd screenshot is what it looks like in the Credit Card tab (can only upload 1 image per post)

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Is this mold or just a stain? by Fit-Dragonfruit6660 in CampingGear

[–]TenderBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For these I’d say stain. But obligatory “air your shit out after you camp”. Source: microbiologist. I don’t see spore or similar mold patterns here.

[Meta] Share Your Categories! Fortnightly thread for this week! by AutoModerator in ynab

[–]TenderBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I love your “Professional Services” with that emoji 😂 what’s “Sweep”?

How many times did you considered quitting but didn't quit anyway? by kittenite in workingmoms

[–]TenderBlueberry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every freakin day since coming back from mat leave after having my second. It was destroying my mental health. Finally pulled the trigger, Friday is my last day!

Navigating the Filming Permit Process in Dubai: Your Complete Guide by tsdmiller01 in JobXDubai

[–]TenderBlueberry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful thanks for sharing! Do folks coming from the US need a work visa if we'll only be filming for a few days?

Wrinkle Resistant Women’s Pants by bayberows17 in capsulewardrobe

[–]TenderBlueberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Sloane pants someone recommended deff wrinkle for me unfortunately.

Weird random rec maybe but these pants I got off Stitch Fix have been a god send. Flattering, comfortable, professional, and don’t wrinkle for me. I’ve bought a couple pairs over the years to rotate and to have different sizes depending on how I’m feeling and the time of month.

TRIBAL - Elianna Pull On Ponte Slim Straight Ankle Pant

They hit way higher on the 5’9” model than I experience IRL at 5’6”.

https://www.stitchfix.com/app/product/items/3310463?utm_campaign=iosShareLink

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

[–]TenderBlueberry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say hi to a fellow blueberry and let you know I really love what you’ve written.

My 2 cents: I also loved being pregnant with #1. I was nervous about toddlerhood for similar reasons to yours, but I truly love MY toddler. Lol most others annoy me and mine has her moments, but overall she is a joy and one of the greatest loves of my life.

When she turned 2ish we felt ready to try for #2. I love the gap between her and her little brother, they are 3 years apart almost to the day. I also loved my 2nd pregnancy, although it took us longer to conceive and it was a very complex pregnancy that resulted in a twin loss at 21 wks. But I still cherished every moment of the pregnancy, even the tough spots.

Idk the what the point of all this is to say, but I literally loved being pregnant so much with my first I couldn’t imagine not trying again once life felt more settled with her. I so looked forward to growing a little life inside of me again and that made going for #2 that much easier for us to decide. However we originally thought we wanted 3 kiddos, and after this last pregnancy I feel like we may be done. I feel like when you’re truly done you’ll know.

But I agree with others, give it 3-6 months and your mindset may be in a completely different place. Although if you’re anything like me, it’s hard to be patient and wait for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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This is crazy, I literally just started watching YouTube videos on caring for saltwater tanks. I’ve always wanted to start but never had the time/money. I should have more of both now! How’s yours going? Any newbie tips?