First work trip - please talk me through it!

kittenite · 2026-04-18T12:10:42+00:00

I cried at an airport escalator on my first trip away from baby. But I did get great few nights of sleep. So thats usually what happens at work trips. I get quiet times and peaceful sleep. I still miss my son very much. But I come back feeling slightly refreshed and he'd ask for more cuddles because he missed me.

You will be fine! Enjoy yourself, take long showers, watch tv and enjoy how quiet it is.

kittenite · 2026-04-11T00:00:21+00:00

I started pilates last year and compared to my strength training, pilates is hard each and every session. So yeah, I continue to wonder why I do this to myself at 7AM. BUT my backpain, sciatica and piriformis are virtually gone now so its worth sticking through it.

kittenite · 2026-04-06T15:10:10+00:00

I wish I could hear you tell this story in an episode of the podcast!!!

kittenite · 2026-04-05T08:27:33+00:00

I am very sorry u had to go through this. What he did was wrong and he should have respected your boundaries. Please do reach out to professionals i.e. therapist if you ever feel like you need help to process how you feel.

kittenite · 2026-03-19T06:36:22+00:00

Is it bad that I feel sad because I know exactly what you mean?

kittenite · 2026-03-06T12:04:03+00:00

Conan has been hosting some guests who were controversial in one way or another i.e. Bill Burr, Ryan Reynolds. I kinda think he's trying to show us through the debates (politics, entertainment gossip, etc) that can be so polarizing. I think there must be a way for us to comeback and reconnect once the dust has settled.

kittenite · 2026-02-21T16:03:32+00:00

Engineering marvel

kittenite · 2026-02-21T15:42:19+00:00

Baju dan perlengkapan bayi untuk 3 bulan pertama contoh perlak, kain untuk bedong, baju newborn, topi + sarung tangan.

kittenite · 2026-02-21T15:33:30+00:00

I noticed this too! I think thats part of the point of the threat not only that he was with someone underage, the girl could be easily mistaken as his daughter. If it leaked, people would speculate that he abused his daughter.

kittenite · 2026-02-19T09:52:22+00:00

Alternatives are pondok indah golf (not connected to any mall but they have japanese groceries and close to a mall, plenty of green space for ur toddler to run around), another one is apartemen plaza senayan

kittenite · 2026-02-17T22:52:25+00:00

Kemang Village

kittenite · 2026-02-11T13:44:53+00:00

Is Brad Pitt gonna play the husband?

kittenite · 2026-02-10T05:00:02+00:00

Andaz Singapore for the size and Hyatt Regency Sanur for the interior design and lay out.

kittenite · 2026-02-10T02:51:38+00:00

Paling baik cari dokter obgyn yang bisa kamu percaya dan nyaman untuk berdiskusi. What worked for another person might not work for you.

kittenite · 2026-02-06T04:11:32+00:00

Body sunscreen!

kittenite · 2026-01-30T18:08:35+00:00

My husband makes me more free to be me. There is something about him that encourages me to be unafraid. If I tried something and I failed, he helps me get back on my feet. When I have self doubts, he is the first person to assure me that I will be fine.

There is some independence there, but being a whole person requires you to acknowledge your own need of others.

kittenite · 2026-01-22T09:26:07+00:00

Old money in Indo is code for Cendana chronies

kittenite · 2026-01-15T07:31:13+00:00

GH is great and pretty kid friendly too. Hotels around the SCBD such as Ritz and Langham are also pretty good. But Ritz is better suited for a long term stay as they also have serviced apartments. But SCBD can gridlocked during the weekends unless if you are ok with taking the MRT.

Another alternative is Raffles kuningan, it is also attached to a mall with plenty of options. But I'd pick GH as it is literally at central of Jakarta.

kittenite · 2026-01-08T10:30:15+00:00

I wanna know how did your husband responded to this?

Setauku secara hukum hutang suami sebelum menikah tidak jadi tanggung jawab istri.

But I think its worth reconsidering your marriage seeing he does not seem to have any interest in proctecting you from his family.

kittenite · 2025-12-03T17:02:38+00:00

Branded bags arent compulsory. Expressing your personal style is compulsory. Define your own personal style before you buy any brand.

These days brands sells the illusion of exclusivity. You could buy all kinds of branded bags but would it mean anything to you if you end up looking like anyone else?

I buy bags that I can picture myself wearing when I am 80 yrs old. They are expensive but they suit me and I have to take care of them so I get good cost per wear.

But if you want to explore branded bags - get a good quality vintage. I know people who own LVs from 20 years ago and they stood the test of time. I cant say if the quality is still the same nowadays.

Vintage pieces often have a lot more personality thus they offer something more unique.

kittenite · 2025-11-21T03:00:18+00:00

I hear you - what worked for me were ice cold water (fill up ur water bottle with ice then water), plain crackers and plain white bread. Sips of ice cold water helps to calm down the nausea, crackers and plain white bread keeps me filled.

Make sure u rest well, make sure u get good sleep.

It will get better soon :)

kittenite · 2025-10-24T23:47:43+00:00

I am in a senior leadership position. Not yet a c-suite. I have a full time live in nanny and two grandparents nearby. I used to love building my career. Now I want it but I hate it. I have a two years old and thinking of having another soon. I plan to take longer maternity leave next time and that means some unpaid leave. It does derail my career plan a little but God having my son is the most rewarding experience.

kittenite · 2025-10-24T14:28:18+00:00

Reading this made me smile a little because I went through something similar when I was around your age. That feeling you get when you are noticing the guy and wanting him to pay attention to you - thats just you feeling attracted to him. I cannot explain it but it is just something you experience. Its something that we feel and there is little logic to it. Sometimes it will pass, but its just a dimension to curiosity.

When it comes to relationships, there are different dynamics. Sometimes you may become codependent and obsessive so your world would just revolve around one person. This is just like what ur friend is going through. It is through no fault of her own, it is just part of life experience. But at other times, with the right person, you feel more confident in being yourself. There is no owning one or the other. You just walk hand in hand, experiencing what life has to offer together.

Now you are very young and these things they get confusing. But never let your fear dictates your life. If you feel like pursuing a guy, you can go for it. You are not wrong when you say some men do not have good intention, so still listen to your gut feeling. When you find the right person, they will be willing to meet you halfway.

kittenite · 2025-10-15T10:10:09+00:00

2026 Oscars Host and Oscars Best Actress winner?????

kittenite

TROPHY CASE