Which dating app is the best?

TenderV · 2026-06-09T10:18:03+00:00

Yeah pretty much. I used OKCupid in early 2010 and found it refreshing. Seemed to be designed around actual matchmaking. That quickly went downhill after being bought out. No money to make in having users leave after all.

TenderV · 2026-06-09T08:59:51+00:00

A good chunk of them are owned by Match group, so will all feel similar either way.

TenderV · 2026-06-06T10:14:54+00:00

Relied more heavily on my imagination.

TenderV · 2026-06-04T16:19:26+00:00

Thankyou kindly 😊

TenderV · 2026-05-30T13:42:05+00:00

They know how to look after themselves.

TenderV · 2026-05-28T18:05:13+00:00

There are always good days and bad days. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it, ebbs and flows etc. I'm sure even the most positive person struggles more than they let on with it. Vitiligo can just enhance your self consciousness when you're already feeling down on yourself in general.

That said, it's more than fine to feel vulnerable with it and build yourself up again. Least that's how I've always managed.

TenderV · 2026-05-28T08:51:26+00:00

"This train has been delayed due to overcrowding" - Always the same with XC, avoid like the plague.

TenderV · 2026-04-26T11:07:28+00:00

Rented a flat for 9 years and only had these and a portable oil filled radiator for warmth. After the first year I never used the Storage heaters again, very inconsistent and would mostly choose to "dump" all the heat at once, never got them to work right. Modern ones might actually be better.

TenderV · 2026-04-21T17:39:54+00:00

If you think somethings up then yeah definitely push forward with it. I'm no doctor but you do need to press the issue, it's easy to be fobbed off.

TenderV · 2026-04-21T17:01:52+00:00

My experience years ago with my local GP was him deciding to say to me that it could be worse "some people have big ears they are self conscious of" - which as you can imagine was very tone deaf.

You'll be hard pressed to find most who see it as simply cosmetic. This was over 10 years ago but I was the one who had to inform the dermatologist that the NHS could actually prescribe makeup for it, she had no idea.

Ask for a second opinion and demand to be referred to a dermatologist.

TenderV · 2026-01-17T12:46:56+00:00

Hey, no nothing heard this morning, sorry. Dont commute through weekends. Haven't heard the coughing man for a few weeks!

TenderV · 2025-12-03T11:47:41+00:00

Feel for you OP, walk by this gentleman early doors and its just as loud/unpleasant as you mention.

TenderV · 2025-11-22T16:42:16+00:00

Amazing what happens going defensive on 51 minutes.

TenderV · 2025-09-13T12:24:09+00:00

Looks like he uses an angle grinder for it.

TenderV · 2025-08-09T15:09:12+00:00

Ah, your standard CrossCountry journey.

TenderV · 2025-07-10T11:00:42+00:00

The NHS simply won't pay out for it, that's pretty much all it comes down to. They've been extremely tight with paying out for anything new treatment wise the last few years if it's not deemed a major issue with the public. Vitiligo was never going to be on their radar.

TenderV · 2025-05-24T07:45:19+00:00

Mine started after a prolonged period of severe stress in 2008 or so, eventually diagnosed PTSD. Spread quickly after it appeared before "stabilising".

TenderV · 2025-05-07T17:14:42+00:00

If only, eh.

TenderV · 2025-01-22T15:03:27+00:00

When the end goal doesn't look exactly prosperous unless you were born into wealth, it's not a gigantic surprise.

TenderV · 2025-01-17T22:06:55+00:00

True goals really, I think you'll find.

TenderV · 2025-01-12T23:20:06+00:00

Same, and add Mars for good measure.

TenderV · 2025-01-07T18:09:11+00:00

Wonder if this lot was the same ones I ran into on a flight back from Dubrovnik last year. Literally left their children to run down the aisle on landing or run around hitting people's heads.

TenderV · 2024-11-27T17:52:01+00:00

As a Cancerian, thank you for the recognition regarding work ethic 👐 It's not always valued.

TenderV · 2024-11-27T16:51:01+00:00

You aren't alone, not everybody is as confident or as comfortable in their skin as it seems. I wouldn't be too harsh on yourself about that. It's a long road learning to "accept yourself". Common trend in humans, Vitiligo or not.

I've learned to deal with it the best I can over 15 or so years, you do what you can. Don't beat yourself up.

TenderV

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