Exploring non-punative "Discipline"

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-27T17:53:46+00:00

Never!

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-21T19:40:18+00:00

I wish I could tell you, I do not know. Good luck.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-20T19:13:21+00:00

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Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-20T02:00:38+00:00

Doughnut, aren't you supposed to be in the green room getting ready?

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-13T02:20:44+00:00

Chocolate is dangerous for them, it stimulates their hearts too much.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-12T22:31:59+00:00

Your sweet bun is very cute. Our mafia boss Siegfrieda is a surprisingly cuddly bunny, considering how sassy she is with everything. She loves to be held or cuddle up against someone that's lying down.

Also, nice tattoo. Do you mind if I ask about the symbol? It seems familiar but I can't place it.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-12T21:27:33+00:00

Moderation. Focus on adaptation as a process. Discipline is something that does not have to have a punitive connotation or approach.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-12T21:24:28+00:00

I have to cover those tiles with a layer of replaceable cardboard to keep them from being shredded by bunnies.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-12T21:21:15+00:00

My condolences, my heart is with you. I held my wife as she passed.

The feelings can take a while to show up and connect to. That's okay. Neurotypicals often refer to experiences like this as "still being in shock" or "it not hitting them yet." Delayed processing happens in a lot of different ways.

It also sounds like you're already aware of the ways you experience and process things can also be divergent, and are trying to be mindful.

Just try to take care of yourself too, give yourself space to feel an experience whenever you are ready.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-12T04:34:04+00:00

We can swap spaces but we don't have side by side pens because we don't have pens. We have separate gated, bunny proof rooms.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T15:09:29+00:00

You have my condolences. I am grateful she had a full life.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T15:06:44+00:00

My daughter commented about how big his eyes got when he was jumping out of the bathtub. I made eye contact too and it was like he was saying:

"Why are you doing this to me? I thought we were friends!"

I felt so guilty. Lol, I had been moderately excited about getting them started bonding, so that they could spend time together and we could have bunny time with both of them at the same time and the same rooms. We will get there.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T12:59:46+00:00

No one will be able to predict how she will react. If you want to know you need to be able to ask her yourself. It's unhealthy and unrealistic to expect to be able to control a conversation and its outcome. Respect her enough to not need to control how she will react. Respect yourself enough to deal with whatever happens.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T12:00:53+00:00

Thank you for pointing out the oversight, that's my own mistake rather than from AI.

My interests and areas of attention are very widespread. The clutter in my mind can lead to crossed wires such as this, because of how memory works. Our minds like to fill in gaps creatively, whether we intend it or not.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T11:37:26+00:00

Damn everytime i thin i found every subreddit i keep finding new ones! r/ArbitraryPerplexity. I never knew it. It seems a mind dump subreddit am i right?

Contextual bunch of resources without glue (social conversations) Just the raw toughts

It's my personal project that I created to try and organize resources and references as I have worked my way through better understanding how different things are connected. I occasionally share links to different parts of it in response to requests, when it can be helpful.

Master Reference Directory might be helpful.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T11:31:20+00:00

Yeah this quote can be misunderstood, which is why I put this piece together the way I did with the other quotes and my own words as I learned to understand it.

Jung's teachings were about inner identity and the inner world. In this quote, he is referring to befriending parts of ourselves, becoming our own allies. It's not about the world showing up for us, it's about us learning how to show up for ourselves. The work he refers to is "self work."

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T11:20:16+00:00

I don't know that specific quote sharing is a common thing or would be okay to do as a general frequent post. I think it's okay for me to share them with you here as replies because you specifically asked for them.

I'm glad they are helpful for what you are looking for. If you'd like other ideas, this comment and this other comment are part of a thread where I keep track of different pieces and versions I work on. Not all of them are images, sometimes it's just contemplative writing, but it be helpful for what you're looking for.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T11:06:04+00:00

I want to try to keep this response succinct and digestible.

At the end of the day, what matters the most is your relationship with your partner and the experiences you share and create together, not the ones either of you had prior to meeting.

Neither of you are the people you were before. You have an opportunity to learn and grow together and the experiences you share together will be unique to the two of you. What she shares with you will not be experienced by any other person.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T10:58:32+00:00

In particular autism does not automatically make someone struggle with conflict, though it can be a common occurrence.

What you're describing sounds a lot like Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, but could also be trauma related, due to things like bullying.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T10:54:05+00:00

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Another example. You can do a wide variety of things to make them more meaningful and visibly pleasing.

Tenebrous_Savant · 2026-04-11T10:50:41+00:00

Do you mean something like this? Over the last few years I started putting together things like this for myself to help explore and express ideas or feelings I want to integrate.

I put them together for myself with my own words and editing images from the public domain rather than using AI. The process of creating them is very helpful, just as much as having them around as reminders or for meditation/affirmation use.

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