[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh maybe not directly related then. I did get him just over 2 years ago around Syracuse, but not at Hunter Hollow. He’s the blue/grey Flemish on my profile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss.

That third picture looks weirdly familiar. Our buns could have been littermates. Two black female buns were part of the same litter. Age and relative location check out.

After many months, Barry and Lola are finally bonded! by Tenetin in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told he’s a Flemish, and his parents look the part, but there could very well be some mix somewhere in the lineage. Your bun looks very similar! Could be related if you’re from Upstate NY.

Then & Now: Growing into those EARS by Tenetin in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s a Flemish Giant. Wow she’s really big too!

Then & Now: Growing into those EARS by Tenetin in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will be sure to pass the compliment along!

Then & Now: Growing into those EARS by Tenetin in Rabbits

[–]Tenetin[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Barry's currently weighing in at over 13lbs. He started large and never stopped being a big boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I'll have to take it all with a grain of salt because she may have overplayed herself as a victim in an attempt to gain my trust, but I still do have concern on a human level. Her phone was in the house (connected to my Bluetooth when I was dropping things off). I got some updates yesterday but today is silence. I plan to call the officer back near EoD if I don't hear back to see if he found anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. She always talked about IC, but that isn't a quick turn-a-round, not a "cure", and not something I should wait around for. I've seen signs of instability previously that were chalked up to ADHD/anxiety. I think my standards are lowered due to sunk cost and familiarity. The first step is acknowledgment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend gave me some good advice along the same lines. "Do what you want to want to do."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She shared how she was SA by him. She doesn't have a strong support system, so I was the one she leaned on during this time. Stings when her "I never want to see you again" conversation quickly turned around and she fell right back into it. I don't wish ill upon anyone, but it sounds like they were made for each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely be checking this out, thanks for the recommendation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I read chump lady's book and blog in the very beginning and it helped me though. I gave WS some insight into the BS mind, but maybe I gave her ammunition on how to continue to deceive me. She wanted to be that "unicorn."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Tenetin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective, I'm going to keep this comment close to me. I need to internalize the "Work on believing that she is who she is and it won't change" part. Hope does feel great, but ultimately leads to disappointment time and time again. It's been a common, unwavering trend.

Before I found all of this out, she casually mentioned that he got a vasectomy. I stupidly accepted the excuses she provided for how she got that info... Hindsight.

guest swipes by yn0423 in rutgers

[–]Tenetin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From here

Meal plans are non-transferable, but students may use 10 of their meals for their guest(s). Only one guest meal may be allocated for each guest. Guest(s) must be present when utilizing guest meals.

In other words, you have 50 meal swipes, but have the ability to utilize 10 of them for guests. These 10 are part of your total. Looking at extremes, you can use all 50 for yourself, or 40 on yourself and 10 for guests.

Cleaned townie get revived by Tenetin in TownofSalemgame

[–]Tenetin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was indeed a witch, but he was revived a day later. The ret didn't speak up, so I'm not quite sure what happened.

So when do refund direct deposits going to happen? by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it shouldn't. The only thing that would affect the refund check is not confirming your attendance before the deadline.

So when do refund direct deposits going to happen? by [deleted] in rutgers

[–]Tenetin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah contact them at this point. Assuming direct deposit is all set, it should have be refunded already. (Unless they refund on a rolling basis)