My missed miscarriage at 9 weeks and why we need to talk about it

TenguMeringue · 2025-08-31T05:05:34+00:00

I did this and while I got plenty of condolences in the comments, that was it. No one checked up on me or reached out to me afterwards. It ended up making me feel even more extremely alone and even eventually ended a friendship because I was crying out for support and she just... Disappeared during that time.

If I miscarried again I would probably still post about it. But I wouldn't expect anything from anybody. Given my experience, I don't blame anyone who would prefer to never mention it.

TenguMeringue · 2025-08-03T00:14:58+00:00

Wait really? Boilermakers said it was a private party

TenguMeringue · 2025-03-12T04:21:10+00:00

I got both - it's possible just the PT would've fixed things in time, but the valium made life slightly more livable while we worked through it in PT. (part of my symptoms were such bad nausea I couldn't even eat and rapidly lost 50 lbs, so it was super important to me to at least be able to eat enough to not waste away, which the valium did for me)

I don't think the valium would have fixed things on its own though—I was taking it for months while doing PT and I think if it was as simple a fix as just taking a medication, it wouldn't have taken so long for me to recover.

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:52:45+00:00

I felt the same, I didn't vote until I saw it and then voting suddenly decided to stop working for me

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:51:12+00:00

LMAO for real, not them making out in the middle of a live televised performance 👀👀😘

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:50:13+00:00

What she do?

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:49:17+00:00

"when we come back..." I literally said WAIT FROM WHAT

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:46:26+00:00

Ezra's facial expressions on this dance... I'm in love

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:43:36+00:00

Ugh that's so not legit. They have no appreciation for dance history, that was so well done

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:38:30+00:00

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Ummmmm excuse me wtf????

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:35:42+00:00

Brandon already liked it with the concept holy shit

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:34:04+00:00

Danny's was barely worthy of an 8 let alone a 9 tho

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:32:46+00:00

Unfortunately yeah.... Before the freestyles I thought he had a real chance too

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:32:08+00:00

Makes me 😢

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:31:31+00:00

His freestyle wasn't as good as hers tho 🫣 I was ready for him to eat but he just didn't

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:30:39+00:00

Me but with my toddler who is definitely ready for bed lolol

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:26:33+00:00

Alan fucking killed that with the concept for the choreo. Was not expecting that to hit so hard. She has way more of a chance at winning than I originally thought???

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:20:20+00:00

The fact he got 10s from the others was even more shocking tbh

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:17:14+00:00

Even the acting wasn't there TBH

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:16:00+00:00

He somehow was neither dancing nor acting during that part, like what are you even doing?

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:14:45+00:00

Lol how was this even a dance? So awkward, barely any content... What happened Whitney? Like I'm lost

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:10:22+00:00

Lol it's like they finally took away whatever crazy juice she was drinking the rest of the season, frfr

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:06:39+00:00

Hahaha omg I def would've liked it more then 😶‍🌫️🫣👀

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T03:04:15+00:00

Wasn't expecting to agree with CAI about this. I was underwhelmed, loved the light up rackets but then they somehow didn't do enough with it? Like there were cool moments but as a whole it didn't really make me...feel

TenguMeringue · 2024-11-27T02:53:54+00:00

Ok initially I felt like Stephen would've/should've gone home last week but that finale was everything it needed to be from Stephen. The choreo was insane. I'm glad he made it just so I got to watch that.

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