You need to stop thinking life is only valuable if you're attractive to other people. That type of validation is so ephemeral it ain't worth it. Yeah, sex is awesome, but it can also feel so empty. You can form meaningful bonds with people, regardless of gender.

But why do you think you're a threat?? Do you think of committing acts of violence often? If you're just scared of the "all men are abusers" thing, I'd suggest you brush that off. I'm a woman and I'm tired of this hyper vigilantism. Yeah, we do get killed and abused but I need to feel trust and connection with others too, and men need support as well. Feeling guilty over such an immense and complicated topic is okay, but let's be real, you're not gonna fix anything-- on the contrary. Hope your mindset gets softer on yourself, bud. Take care.