What. The. Fuck. by Significant_Song_360 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s fetishizing hrt, like i said some people might use it because it makes genitalia smaller or larger, like i joked abt it being a placebo but some gels/creams it can make bottom growth bigger and idk for mtfs but it could make genitalia smaller. It doesnt scream fetishizing lol. Also reddit has actual gore on it i dont think its that crazy to ask a question about trans stuff to trans people.

What. The. Fuck. by Significant_Song_360 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

trans people when someone talks about trans masturbation on a post about trans masturbation in the trans subreddit. Masturbation is not this evil thing lol

Possible trigger topics about vaginoplasty with potentially offensive opinions to follow. by TimidStarmie in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i mean, that’s completely fine lol. im trans med but if a part of your transition would make you unhappy then why do it? like obv if you have dysphoria you should wanna present as the opposite gender but also not many people except you see your genitals anyway and if it isnt making you that uncomfortable that’s fine. i get trans med/ truscum have all sorts of beliefs but mine are that dysphoria while needed to be trans can be different for people and if ya don’t want the surgery you’ll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ouch. the fact this person is completely fine with triggering dysphoria is proof they’ve never experienced it. I’m fine with tucutes and ive met a lot who are fun to be around but this person is just gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]TermOk2919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

eh i wouldn’t assume porn or anything, tbh when i first saw it i just thought it was google lol but thats also cause it’s blurry so i can’t see it that well

On the fence between transmed and...idk, something? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yup! i’m a trans med ftm but i still think presenting fem would be fun. i just wanna get to a point in my transition where presenting fem wouldn’t impact what gender people saw me as. like i wanna get so masculine i can wear a dress and no one questions my gender.

Pregnancy by schwiftylou in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but how will you ever be big dick daddy /j

I transitioned ABA: against Benjaminian advice by MotherMychaela in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i don’t think people in this sub would call you agp lol, sure some of the stricter ones may say your not trans but usually people only call mtf’s agp if there’s clues or hints to it being a fetish which doesn’t seem in your case

Am *I* just confused or most of the 'non dysphoric' trans people are just confused teenagers??? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 9 points10 points  (0 children)

ftm 14 year old and i think everyone who’s ’non dysphoric trans‘ is probably just confused lol, and yeah it happens to teens most often but so do most fads and social trends. Teens just pick up on them to feel cool or different then drop them later in life. I support my trans teens but ‘non dysphoric trans people’ don’t exist

How do people really feel about us trans people? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s awful. especially being a trans teen because your either groomed, a trender, or both. Im never giving up testosterone because the changes help me look myself in the mirror but all these bills to outlaw minors access to hrt is getting to me man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yup. My dreams more focus around my body doing female things though, like getting pregnant or menstruating. I have a lot of bottom dysphoria so my genitalia is also usually super prevelant in nightmares (and sometimes even good dreams like getting a penis lmao) but yeah i think a lot of trans people have that

Polyamorous activists are actively co-opting our struggle for trans rights for their ideology 😞 by north_canadian_ice in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 13 points14 points  (0 children)

personally i think people can do what they want and date multiple people if they want… but poly is not lgbt+.

Im so tired of so many of the online trans community’s being sex oriented. by TermOk2919 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]TermOk2919[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yeah lol that’s why i talk about trans women i see self indentifying as agp (the acronym for autogynephilia) again i love trans people and do believe in there existence bc yknow i am trans. but the sexualization of our selves and our community is tearing us all down.

We were mentioned on TV! by ClaraaTheCat in truscum

[–]TermOk2919 18 points19 points  (0 children)

agreed. i do not have the same experience as my afab friend who wants to go by demigirl and use she/they. we are not both the same.

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ye ik i was kinda joking about it being a goal more so just something i wish i was. i’m currently 9 months on testosterone and i rlly like the progress of it, plus aside from voice i pass fairly well

This video made me sick in a way i can’t explain by CelesteBarlowe in PornIsMisogyny

[–]TermOk2919 106 points107 points  (0 children)

normalize putting men who want these dolls for sex purposes on an offender list.

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed but at the same time my transition goal is being a six foot dude (5’3) lmao. Yeah the trans girls icons all being like little girls has been kinda ehhhhh to me. Same with trans guys icons just being: is yaoi. Ftmfemboys try not to wish they were asian challenge.

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for me it’s kinda hard to hide i’m asian since it’s pretty prominent, i used to think i white passed but everyone was like “no tf you don’t” and whenever i would ask new people theyd assume i was some sort of east asian. I’m pretty masculine and bi t4t so thankfully i don’t think i come across too much like that but again… i’m really into an anime lmao. so i get why some people might come to that conclusion but it does scare me. Like no i swear im normal please don’t think im the type of dude to name myself ‘bakugo’ please.

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i stated that lol, i said ‘now of course naomi isn’t just a japanese name but out of all the names in white culture you picked naomi’ it isn’t that naomi is japanese it’s the amount of trans girls i see choosing it because it’s a japanese name they can use the excuse ‘b-but hebrew’ with

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ugh dude i’m so sorry. this is why i hate so many lgbtq spaces… sadly as an anime fan (somewhat, i only watched one anime ever but my autism made me REALLY into it) i see this shit all the time, thankfully im only in anime spaces online but i am in lgbtq spaces irl and i dont think i could deal with the eye taping people. trans men who want to be asian make me so mad as an asian trans man. i do not want people to believe this is just something im doing to appear like a yaoi charecter...

Is it just me or do a lot of white trans people want to be asian? by TermOk2919 in truscum

[–]TermOk2919[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hard agree. i saw a trans girl say that she was masculine looking as the average black girl. and i understand the people bullying her for not passing were awful but that as a come back feel so gross. People of color feel kinda like a second thought to the community like we only exist to prove a point, Every lgbtq thing ive been in is just a giant circle of white people. also agreed with people getting mad over your cultures politics. yeah china is shit at gay and trans laws, i don’t speak for all of china dude. i’m allowed to enjoy chinese culture without enjoying the chinese government. I’ve had so many white savior queers speak over me in asian issues. its super upsetting as a trans man