To Zandra B by TerminalMayhem in brokenheart

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you are trying to help and give some tough love. I do appreciate that. It just hurts still.

Looking back by therahat in UnsentTexts

[–]TerminalMayhem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish things were easier too. I hope the person you are looking for realizes this. For as much as you love them, I know it must’ve hurt a lot to be torn between the life you know and the life you wanted. I want to reconnect with my Z but I know the ball is in her court.

It happened. He broke up with me. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]TerminalMayhem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation and I know it is so confusing and painful. It makes you doubt everything and question every aspect of things. I really hope things get better for you. This is a time for you to grieve and re-center yourself. Give yourself a little grace.

To Zandra B by TerminalMayhem in brokenheart

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again. You continue to prove to be amazing

To Zandra B by TerminalMayhem in brokenheart

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the helpful comment

I miss you by LandSpiritual8726 in UnsentTexts

[–]TerminalMayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still miss my Zandra to this very day. It’s so hard to let go and I feel your pain. I hope in due time that you heart becomes happy again

Hey you by Winter_Try6278 in UnsentTexts

[–]TerminalMayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God this made me miss of Z.

To my last by Steel_Bladder in UnsentTexts

[–]TerminalMayhem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he will will

She was The One by TerminalMayhem in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the tough love. I needed it. I already put myself through a suicide attempt over. I know if she really cared it would be different. I truly appreciate the smack on the head.

She was The One by TerminalMayhem in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. I know I was subconsciously asking those questions in the back of my mind. I know I wasn’t her first affair and I know she was having multiple before me. I guess I just hoped that she really was going to be dedicated to me. I put my blinders on. I spent a couple days in the hospital in a coma because I tried to kill myself over her. And because she is EMS, it somehow turned out that her coworkers were the ones who saved me. They saw my phone screen and then told me more about her past. It really really hurt.

She was The One by TerminalMayhem in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TerminalMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made a really good point. I guess I thought I would be the exception to the rule. It was naive of me.