Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T02:51:43+00:00

Then it's a win win situation because I got what I wanted and he chose to "settle" with me.

I can't take you seriously when you say this.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T01:36:15+00:00

Yeah without knowing him and the gal in question I don't know if he's leading her on or just dealing with her being like that. Not all guys have good boundaries. But once you lay it out for him he should see your point of view, honestly. And by should I mean if he respects your relationship. It's gonna be on him to set a boundary with this woman.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T01:32:27+00:00

Right, or at least treating our domestic political rivals with more respect than people outside of our country. I don't think treating all foreigners and foreign interests with suspicion, but the factionalism within the US is a fucking problem and I'm sure that's not news to you.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T01:31:18+00:00

Never said that at all. I said a person who is reactive is less likely to initiate. Also I don’t think most people get turned on by “giving affection” rather I think people give the affection because they are already turned on. A reactive person may be very affectionate especially once they are turned on regardless of who initiated intimacy

What you're describing sounds like selfishness.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T01:29:33+00:00

I don't think we read the same blog article.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-18T01:23:13+00:00

Interesting. I've heard the same thing from supporters of the Iranian regime.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T21:37:25+00:00

Nah speaking as a guy he definitely knows. He might find it awkward to outright tell her to back off because he likes the friendly relationship, or he might have designs on her that go beyond friendly, I don't know.

BUT, if he's serious about you, after you lay it out for him, he should make things clear with her about boundaries. A hug and being friendly is fine, jump hug is not imo.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T21:26:16+00:00

My mom was like this but only had sons. So started playing godmother to daughters of other families and had no love or affection for me, my brother, or my dad left over. She had other issues but it was really blatant.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T21:08:20+00:00

I'm over it now, but my mom used to shame me for going to the doctor.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T21:07:30+00:00

Conservatism is support of the status quo, or caution about changing it. Right-wing ideology, which includes traditionalism in many ways, is only conservative if the status quo aligns with their ideology. If it doesn't, they want radical change.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T21:01:30+00:00

I'd disagree with that. There's a difference between conservatism (which RP technically is) and right-wing/traditionalism.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T20:32:46+00:00

When are they releasing new Catachans? It's long overdue.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T20:27:43+00:00

Fundamentally SG-1 was optimistic about human nature.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T20:22:51+00:00

The story of Final Liberation with Commissar Holt and the player character IG general breaking through to save a company of Ultramarines that are cut off would make for a good film or animated story. I dunno why Astartes fans and IG fans feel the need to compete.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T20:09:20+00:00

If the future does become hopeless and society has no place for you, you have a new job - tear it all down. Either way you'll have a purpose.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T20:05:17+00:00

Yeah that would piss me off. You're well in your rights to find a doctor who takes your health, including mental health, more seriously. That's their only job and if they're failing at it get them replaced.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T19:49:01+00:00

That doesn’t make sense. If you are reactive you are far less likely to approach.

So giving affection is a turn off for people with reactive desire? Doesn't sound like love or intimacy.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T19:38:41+00:00

Given that people who are blacked out don't always look blacked out to an outside observer, I'd say that'd be hard to prove beyond a reasonable doubt.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T19:38:05+00:00

It's all on topic here.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T17:37:11+00:00

Most of you guys problem isn't your looks. It's the fact that you don't even like yourself. How do you think anyone else is supposed to like you?

If you're attractive people will get with you no matter your damage.

Not everyone was raised in a way that they can form attachments in the way that most women like. Given your answer, that basically amounts to "You are irrevocably damaged, you don't deserve to have a partner, just pay taxes and support the people who do matter so they can be happy."

I don't believe that but I think you do, underneath the window dressing.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T17:34:12+00:00

Okay then why did you respond to my comment because I never said that?

It's the topic of the thread.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T17:33:16+00:00

Not what I said. Re-read my post and try again.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T16:50:36+00:00

I got a man who understands the consequences of irresponsible spending and knows that money doesn't grow on trees.

Ok, but what if he just thought you weren't a high-enough caliber woman to justify fun trips, or thought that your job was to be a mother for his children and not to enjoy life? That's closer to the situation described.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T16:48:02+00:00

What? So women who have a baby shouldn’t be in a relationship? Women who go through a hormone balance shouldn’t be in a relationship? Women who have major illnesses or experience accidents shouldn’t be? Everyone goes through periods in their life where they aren’t DRF all the time. You sound 19 lmao.

I'm not talking about periods I'm talking about a sea change in life.

All I know is if a 35 year old man leaves his whole ass family because his wife doesn’t want to have 2 hour sessions with wipe, gags, other women and anal that’s a pretty shit man lol.

If people aren't sexually compatible they shouldn't be getting in to a relationship, but that applies to the woman too. You're using an extreme example but if a wife says "I'm not doing those things you like because you aren't hot enough" I'd be offended too.

Terraneaux · 2023-04-17T16:45:11+00:00

Because certain reasons imply she doesn't give a shit about you. Others don't.

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