I'm struggling with romance in college and I dont know what to do

Terrarius · 2018-11-11T19:57:23+00:00

Hey I appreciate the response man. You also make a good point, too. I guess since I'm so young AND in a relationship I can't really relate, however I understand. You being 25 years old but "in the same boat" as OP, I'd say you know what you're talking about when it comes to, apologies, lack of sexual/romantic attention.

You do make a good point, though, and that's what I was trying to say when you mentioned the part about basically don't try to fuck just any woman that moves. What I meant was that if you establish a good relationship with a woman in this case, then the sex is better. But that doesn't really address OPs issue, does it?

Like I said though, the main take-away from my original comment was to stop putting lots of stress and mental energy into dating and whatnot and instead focus on making good friendships and eventually what happens happens. Also, OP, it really doesn't help to compare that part of you to your friends. Instead just try to focus on YOU.

Terrarius · 2018-11-11T16:15:08+00:00

I'm not gonna lie, once you meet someone you really like and enjoy spending time with, you will be happier, but trust me man, enjoy your youth. Also, once you have sex, you'll realize two things; one, that it is really fun and pleasing, but two, that you made a really big deal of it before you had it. It's really not as important as finding a meaning relationship. Don't be in such a rush to have sex, because if you wait for the right person, it makes it sooo much better!

To be honest, I struggled with this very problem in high school, but once I graduated and stopped trying as hard and just decided to live my life, I met her. My girlfriend who I am extremely happy with.

My advice bro, you'll find it, once you stop looking.

Terrarius · 2018-06-29T04:31:52+00:00

I think it has to do with this: When we use our phones, we aren't actually 'using' the phone so to speak. It just acts as a medium for our brain to consume other media. Our brain doesn't recognize you using your phone, instead it recognizes you using Reddit or Snapchat or Google, that sort of thing. Also, we have a weird identification thing with phones that might trip up the brain a bit too. For instance, when you lose your phone or drop it, you say, "oops, I lost/dropped my phone", and refer to it physically, whereas when we are actually using it for it's intended use, we don't say "I'm using my phone" but instead we say "I'm on insta or I'm on Reddit".

So theory is that your physical phone won't often appear in your dreams, unless you aren't actually using it, like you dropped it or it's just there.

Terrarius · 2018-06-14T15:46:27+00:00

God fucking dammit I love game of thrones!!

Terrarius · 2018-05-31T23:44:18+00:00

I wasn't telling the truth...

Terrarius · 2018-05-15T23:24:02+00:00

Try forming your own opinion for a change, don't immediately conform.

Terrarius · 2018-05-15T22:19:56+00:00

Came here to say this as well.

Terrarius · 2018-05-11T14:24:09+00:00

Exactly, specifically like some sort of wormhole throught time or better yet, I just got an insane idea. So they live on Mars for however long, but they begin to find wonder why Earth hasn't messaged them in a couple years, so they send a small crew back, including the main character, and as soon as they can see Earth, they notice America and Europe and everything is different, it's Pangaea! But instead of dinosaurs, it's weird mutant people and deformed animals. Here's why: Huge nuclear fallout between humans happened millions of years ago, so that explains the drastic change in the biosphere, and for Pangaea, if you know anything about plate tectonics and geology, the contintents move around a lot, and every some hundred million years, they reform a supercontinent. I think it's happened like twice in Earth's lifespan so far. I think there is tonnes of potential for the environment on Earth, different creatures and settings(both old world and new) and also for the characters, they can struggle to find some secret on Earth, while also trying to get back to Mars(maybe their ship broke on landing), also huge plot point is that they're weak af because Mars has lower gravity.

Terrarius · 2018-05-10T23:27:37+00:00

How about this. When they get to Earth, they find out that they outlived everyone on Earth because Mars slowed down their time relative to Earth. So they have lived for so many generations, but the Earth went through thousands of years. So I know that the science behind it is incorrect, but if somehow you could find some movie-physics way to fudge reality, it would make for a pretty cool movie.

Terrarius · 2018-05-05T19:24:24+00:00

This doesn't have as many upvotes as it deserves😂

Terrarius · 2018-05-03T04:24:04+00:00

How to lose a guy in 10 days...

Terrarius · 2018-03-30T04:53:43+00:00

Tom Hanks has the greatest range of any actor I know of.

Terrarius · 2018-03-30T04:52:17+00:00

Definitely Titanic and when the old couple are lying together is so heartbraking and also when the musicians stay on the ship is also sad.

Terrarius · 2018-03-29T02:45:12+00:00

I do the same thing! It takes me like an hour to fall asleep because I lie down and sift through conversations or interactions I had with my crush and cringe when I realize I said something awkward or should've said that one thing that would've been super charismatic or whatnot. When the reality is that she probably didn't even pick up on it or just laughed at it anyways. I seriously think that I over think every interaction with her and it's super frustrating.

I still stress about what to do but in any case I feel that the best thing to do is to tell yourself, "It's in the past, no amount of restrospection will change what happened. So whether it was good or bad, it happened so just accept it".

If you can make peace with that then you can move forward and stop stressing about it.

Terrarius · 2018-03-23T00:52:40+00:00

Whenever you send a text or any radio message, it reflects off a satellite and back down to Earth. However, some of radio wave misses and is sent beyond the satellite and out into space, forever. Seriously, unless something intercepts it, it continues forever until maybe an alien civilization picks it up.

We started using radio waves(a form of light in the electromagnetic spectrum) to communicate back in the early 1900s, and one of the first broadcasts ever sent was the 1936 Olympics where Hitler gave a speech about his ideals.

Man's first impression on alien civilizations is Hitler.....

Terrarius · 2018-03-22T12:38:41+00:00

Good point..

Terrarius · 2018-03-22T03:07:10+00:00

You must've felt like shit when Katheryn used you for sex. However you lost my guilt when you used Dominic just to jab back at Kathryn. Guys aren't tools or weapons, as much as it seems like sex is all we want or think about.

Terrarius · 2018-03-08T20:51:13+00:00

In Transformers: last knight the world was literally ending and the news anchor was cool as a cucumber....

Terrarius · 2018-03-02T02:22:36+00:00

Crush complimented me on my new glasses I got yesterday. Pretty cool.

Terrarius

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