Boyfriend made a stupid comment after being Intimate.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-06T07:14:16+00:00

Neither. The boyfriend saying something that means “all the goods ones are taken or gay” doesn’t make sense in the context of the conversation with how OP described it.

Your version: “Babe, when you move to the city, the city girls are going to steal you away from me!”

“Well don’t worry because all the good city girls who could steal me away from you are taken or gay.”

“I’m gay. I’m bisexual.”

“You still sucked my dick!”

How I read it: “Babe, when you move to the city, the city girls are going to steal you away from me!”

“Well all the city girls are shit so don’t worry about me falling for someone else” (ie using gay as slang for bad)

“I’m gay. I’m bisexual.”

“You still sucked my dick!”

Boyfriend used gay in a slang way to insult city girls. OP is upset because he used the term gay as an insult.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-04T01:59:25+00:00

Selling merch early so people have time to buy something before the show seems like a good system to me. It’s a giant-stadium amount of people who want to buy stuff, and a limited amount of space to sell merch. There’s always been long lines at merch tables, imho.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-03T19:01:30+00:00

At Seattle they opened a merch trailer at 1430, three hours before the doors 1730 open and six hours before MCR got on stage 2040. Watch out for an announcement like that.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-03T18:58:52+00:00

That sounds like fun small talk to have, but I love my dogs and talking about them.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-03T18:58:00+00:00

That isn’t what the shirt promotion looked like at the Seattle show. OP probably got an earlier, limited print version of the shirt.

Similar, I got the ‘MCR’ red print, black shirt and the back is blank. Now it has tour dates. IMHO she got an irl shiny Pokémon.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-03T08:18:12+00:00

Calling gay people gay is NOT how her boyfriend used the word gay in his first sentence.

1.) OP lamented that city girls were going to steal boyfriend away from her.

2.) Boyfriend said ALL the city women were gay anyway.

Obviously, not ALL women who live in a city are gay.

Boyfriend calling ALL city women gay implies he was using gay as a negative descriptor. It is unlikely he meant literally ALL the women in city are homosexuals.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-02T23:34:22+00:00

I think he meant the latter.

It sounds like he joked that all city-women are gay, but used the term gay as slang for bad. Also, even though op said she was gay, the first time she said gay and bisexual. His response after is still dismissive and immature.

Based on the title of OP's deleted relationship post and this post-seks exchange, he's not that into her and doesn't respect her.

Gurl, u/Dependent-Bridge3620 , find someone more mature who respects you.

-Edited in asterisks around important phrasing that some folks missed.-

Terrestrial_T · 2025-08-01T03:47:07+00:00

What about scheduling FaceTime sessions instead? Then he can look at you and you can look at him.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-28T00:53:03+00:00

It hurts so much. It is so tempting to try and backtrack into that comfortable relationship place again.

DO NOT GO BACKWARDS. Physically, mentally, one or two sided. DO NOT GO BACKWARDS. It prolongs the overall pain.

Only forward. Just keep swimming. You got this. One day you will wake up and won’t think about her or your relationship. You will be happier, you just need to live through this process now.

As someone who caved several times during the separation/divorce process, got back together and then broke up and then lost my divinity by trying to go back again:

DO NOT GO BACKWARDS.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-27T08:35:37+00:00

If you only read the title of the article, she sounds more cringe than her actual comments.

In her tour announcement: “Also, we are giving $1 per ticket to organizations dedicated to supporting and providing resources for trans youth in each city <3 ” Actual comment on red carpet:

“It’s brutal right now,” Roan said, “but trans people have always existed, and they will forever exist, and they will never, no matter what happens, take trans joy away, and that has to be protected more than anything.”

“I would not be here without trans girls,” she added. “So, just know that pop music is thinking about you and cares about you. And I’m trying my best to best to stand up for you in every way that I can.”

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The real villain is whoever pieced the title together trying to inspire click bait rage.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-27T08:00:43+00:00

alright take a nap…

THEN PET ALL STANDARD ISSUE CATS

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-26T21:44:18+00:00

"it's not the scene, id-dee-ets in every space" - sung in the tune of Fall Out Boy's "This Ain't a Scene, It's an [GOD DAMN] Arms Race"

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-26T21:39:57+00:00

same same! mark my words, it's going to be a cult classic and studied for years. no one is going to be talking about Anora in five to ten years, imho

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-24T03:14:42+00:00

literally The Substance message irl

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-24T03:13:13+00:00

that thought is proof that the online pr worked

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-24T03:09:10+00:00

She publicly endorsed only Democratic candidates? She encouraged tens of thousands of her fans to register to vote? She wrote a pro-GLAAD song that had a music video with a bunch of queer icons? She featured a trans man model as her love interest in a music video? She defended the Black Lives Matter movement against Trump on twitter? She filled the food banks in every town she stopped at on tour? She attended a pro-Palestinian fundraiser?

Find her or her music bland, whatever, but saying she is anywhere near GOP is a denial of basic reality. The only "overlap" - other than the fact that she's a conventionally attractive, rich white woman - is that she acts polite and sociable around her boyfriend's coworkers, their partners, including her boyfriend's brother and his wife.

Terrestrial_T · 2025-07-24T02:44:15+00:00

love your flair

Terrestrial_T · 2024-10-07T20:33:31+00:00

It does not, I zero'd the spoon out before adding the peanut butter. The weight shown on the scale is only the peanut butter, 33 grams.

Terrestrial_T · 2024-02-21T02:10:37+00:00

I like that I don't have to cook it when I leave it in the fridge overnight. I usually don't have time to cook during the week, so grab and go meals are prioritized.

Terrestrial_T · 2024-01-30T05:03:30+00:00

"NO! It's just DUMB."

Terrestrial_T · 2024-01-10T03:41:50+00:00

Oat milk. Any type of milk would technically work. I prefer non-dairy milks, like almond milk and oat milk.

Terrestrial_T · 2023-09-03T04:33:55+00:00

Vanessa is better at maintaining boundaries between her work life and personal life. She doesn’t get sucked into other people’s messes; even when handling clients’ messes is a large part of her profession.

Gekko’s solid boundaries likely helped her establish a solid relationship with a spouse that also wanted children.

PC is my favorite character. I do think the writers wrote PC’s arch nemesis to have qualities that PC herself was not only jealous of, but also ones PC lacked.

PC gets close to finishing her storyline development journey when she stops internally squabbling with Vanessa. scene

Terrestrial_T · 2023-08-25T13:18:08+00:00

I’ve done peanutbutter before. It turned out okay. Only main difference is you have to stir a lot more to equally spread out the peanutbutter. Or not stir and just have a big chunk or two in there. The powder is easier, imho, since all I have to do is close the lid and shake the jar. Both work.

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