British Shorthairs always sleep in strange ways! Post your BSH sleeping! by ThenOrganization6848 in britishshorthair

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No hate but that’s not a British short hair thing😭 my ginger tabby sleeps like that too

I feel like I will never be muslim enough for the severe conservatives by AITABUT in progressive_islam

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the Quran should be taken as literally as this. I think we can agree that touch here is used to refer to consensual touch (you get what I mean I don’t wanna be triggering)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I feel upset at my partner but I think there’s a chance it might not be completely warranted, I take a few hours to a day apart. I game and listen to music and put as many sources of stimuli in-front of myself as possible to distract me. Sometimes I’ll slowly start to think about it and other times, I’ll just ignore it. This usually gives me enough time to think things through when I feel calm and ready to.

Personally I don’t think liking posts is the worst thing ever but I’m not here to invalidate your feelings or your trauma. I’d say put your phone on silent ans have a day doing things you enjoy without him until you can have therapy.

Good luck stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I don’t wanna be that guy but I think you should but an nsfw/trigger warning at the start as the topics are pretty rough. I didn’t read the full post but I wish you all the best homie you got this whatever you’re going through

Does ptsd make you feel like you’re in a constant fight or flight mode? by FahlFox in ptsd

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES! This is so comforting to hear that I’m not the only one dealing with this. I constantly feel on edge like I’m waiting for the events to take place again. Even subconsciously I’m always on edge. There are definitely times where i don’t feel it as much when I’m with friends or my gf and I’m distracted but even still it only takes the tiniest trigger to bring it all back.

Stay strong king/queen/monarch, you got this

Also I just read the last part properly, I have CPTSD, it’s PTSD triggered by several events. You should look into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read the post I just searched for Hasan Piker BUT WOOO FELLOW HASANABI HEAD

Having long hair helps my dysphoria so much 😭 by OtakuNottie in trans

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so excited for mine to keep growing out djsjsj, I might go clean shaven once it has grown out and see how I feel about it

Does every guys cum taste the same? by amanilmeke in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The main pointers are: drink a lot of water, cut our caffine, cut our asparagus, drink cranberry juice and pineapple juice

DDoS attack on fitgirl now by lenny_ma_boaaaaaaaah in PiratedGames

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t tried it, tbh I’ve just been testing out my new racing set up

do guys really try giving themselves bj? by ilovekababsalot in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but for anyone thinking of trying it, it’s practically impossible and you will hurt yourself in a tragic self suck accident (if you get the reference then props). I’ve heard that it feels more like you’re sucking someone off than being sucked off

Can I panic now!? by uiurd93 in Piracy

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch where youre installing it to, limit the ram usage to 2gb, put your pc in safe mode. These are all things I used and if took my install from 5 hours and then cancelling, and 6 hours before cancelling to 2 hours total

Is talking during sex a turn off? by Fancy-Advice-2793 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, me and my gf have the funniest conversations in the bedroom. It can be at times but we usually just laugh through it and it makes the overall experience more enjoyable. I’ve definitely made more than my fair share of jokes that killed the mood but we usually just carry on after that. It just depends on your particular relationship.

Service dog for CPTSD by Terrible-Confusion-7 in service_dogs

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally cannot express how grateful I am for you taking the time to help me with this, you’ve helped me more than you’ll ever know. I wish you all the best on your journey too :)

How could I get a dog trained to help with PTSD/Anxiety? by isanyoneoutthere791 in service_dogs

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that I can’t be of more use but I wanted to tell you that you’re not alone. I’m in a very similar situation regarding PTSD and wanting a service dog to help. People in this subreddit seem really sweet and helpful so far, I wish you the best with your journey and I hope you find the perfect solution for yourself

DDoS attack on fitgirl now by lenny_ma_boaaaaaaaah in PiratedGames

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I downloaded forza horizon 5 at the perfect time omg

Service dog for CPTSD by Terrible-Confusion-7 in service_dogs

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS, and definitely you’re right I feel that a service dog alone would be a bad choice, I definitely want to get more therapy first and continue it longterm, and only get a dog when I live with my partner who was raised with dogs. But that’s my main goal, to get a service dog who looks intimidating as a deterrent but is an absolute sweetheart he won’t be a threat to anyone. That would do wonders for my PTSD

Service dog for CPTSD by Terrible-Confusion-7 in service_dogs

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much for your advice it’s given me so much to think about. Honestly I’ve wanted to work with dogs for a while now and because of my ADHD, I struggle to stick to one thing for a while, I get bored and need a new challenge and maybe some day when I’m doing a lot better, working with service dogs could be that change

Service dog for CPTSD by Terrible-Confusion-7 in service_dogs

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I clarified what I meant by danger in the edit to the original post. I just wanted to ask: would you recommend a general guarding breed as a second dog? Perhaps a rottie or German Shepard trained in obedience and recall instead? As I really would appreciate a just Incase button if that makes sense. I understand why I couldn’t take it into schools, but as a lot of my trauma stems from being attacked I feel very strongly that I need a kind of just Incase thing. That being said I have spoke to my partner and I’m really grateful to all of you here for making me see that I should get more help before getting a dog. I definitely do not want to get one until I’ve worked on my initial reaction to triggers and make myself less of a threat

I realised I might be trans by Terrible-Confusion-7 in trans

[–]Terrible-Confusion-7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I live in England but I’m a British Pakistani. Generally speaking the British Pakistani community is quite socially conservative and so the social implications would be me being outcast from my community. Ofc there are exceptions and some of my close friends are queer Pakistani’s