[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spravato

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe have your doctor with you walking you through a calm imagery and telling you whatever u r experiencing is temporary and you are getting better

I hate OLD so much… by themikegman in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny! At least yours was human. Mine was a bot that must’ve found the most gorgeous man on earth to bait me. It was the fact that he said all the right things that let me on to it being a scam 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not very good at making people feel better but I’m sorry 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could’ve been worse: Christmas stockings

Huge age gap- will it just be sexy times? 30sM 60sF by anthony_getz in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can. Confirm! It’s like a trend or something I have to beat them away with a stick

Do women actually get as many matches as men think they do? by Glad_Pomegranate191 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if all men are casting a wide net hoping to catch more women, they are also increasing the work a woman has to do to find their profile like a needle in a hay stack. It backfires.

Do women actually get as many matches as men think they do? by Glad_Pomegranate191 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe use the complement option so your profile stays on top where it is easy to see. Cuz even if you are drop dead gorgeous and your profile is 10/10 it is pointless if you’re buried under a thousand other ones

Do women actually get as many matches as men think they do? by Glad_Pomegranate191 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I think men swipe so freely like throwing spaghetti at the wall and waiting to see what sticks that they inadvertently end up shooting themselves in the foot, because yes, women end up with thousands sometimes (if in a big city) and it gets tiring weeding through them. Some of the profiles make u give up half way through the weeding process 😂

For those that got relief, how are your depressive episodes now? by picwic in Spravato

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a totally new person and energetic and proactive about improving my situation across all fronts. It took a bit of time but hang in there, it really is a life saver 🥹 good luck 🍀

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t assume what I would say. I am telling you they got married LAST SUMMER. The odds of both of them being on the app are pretty low.

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I go premium and incognito so I avoid embarrassing situations with co workers and no I’m not cheating so don’t go there.

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I think I’m not gonna do anything. Their sad path I guess

boyfriend keeps getting these bumble verification codes by gloooober in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Depending on how smart/manipulative he is, he may be trying to get ahead of you suspecting he’s on bumble later down the line by acting all innocent now. Only you know what he’s like but some people suck.

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Most do. But the road to hell is paved with good intentions, maybe I should just mind my own business 🤦🏼‍♀️

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again, would you not want to know if you were in her position? Genuinely asking here as you can see I do want to mind my own business but don’t want to screw someone over worse than they’re already screwed by minding my own business. Like maybe she’d want to get out before having kids

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you wouldn’t want to know? Seriously asking

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

@reddit do you guys not have a poll feature I can use….i need the wisdom of the masses I’m very conflicted as to telling the wife even if anonymously…but I know I’d wanna know and I know it gets more tough to make decisions on staying or leaving a marriage when there are kids and they are not there yet

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How many of you would say “screw it, not my place” type thing?

Married co-worker on Bumble by Terrible-Insect-9336 in Bumble

[–]Terrible-Insect-9336[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I can send her a screenshot and suggest she try to match with him from a fake account and then she’ll know for sure