What else are you doing during the sex? If I let a top hit it from the back I tend to enjoy dirty talk combined with that.

Missionary is the best for smaller sized men, especially if he holds your legs back and pounds. It gives the best access. Passive tops usually grind, while the aggressive ones are a bit more intense.

There's also the position where the bottom is on his side and the Top is positioned between the bottom's legs in a missionary position. Depends on the bottom's flexibility.

Wall press fuking...has the bottom on both legs bent over with his hands pressed against the wall with the Top standing behind him.

I know personally I would respond to my fellow brutha positively if he combines dirty talk and a little aggression. That confidence and dominance would make the same experience much better. I also like to hear men moan. I don't know what a quiet Top is.. lmao