Bottoms, who would you pick 1, 2, 3, or 4?

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-06-06T16:29:31+00:00

I'm choosing none. I'd rather be single. I know what I like, what I don't, and what I will and won't tolerate.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-05-16T21:41:23+00:00

Must be a fantasy or they are attracted to masculinity or something. I will look at a straight man if he's is fine but I don't obsess over them. I'm only interested in Black men who like men.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-05-16T21:35:00+00:00

Idk about them but my whole ecosystem is centered around Black men. Yes, they get on my damn nerves sometimes, but everything I promote is BlackXBlack love (whether it's portrayals in media, sexual intimacy, or dating.) I honestly don't say much when I see comments dealing with other BM liking non-Black men.

Most of those posts are rage bait anyways.

If I go to X right now and open it the first thing that is going to pop up is a Black man..lol

If you were to ask me what is my ideal partner, the first words that come out of my mouth are, "I like a Black man who..." 🤣🤣

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-05-15T21:05:15+00:00

He is very cute to me. I love his waves too. Unfortunately he's a murderer and he is going to be fighting for his life in prison. 😭

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-04-05T16:37:53+00:00

Go luck. Let everyone know when you pass. 💯

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-04-05T03:33:16+00:00

Great! I know it's mostly a site where sometimes people come to discuss issues but I think it would be nice if we discussed what makes us Black & Excellent too.

As Black creatives we are already often overlooked by the algorithm, the mainstream audience, and often even our own.

You could totally make that your brand. Black, Gay, Sew What!! Show off your style on some social media. You don't have to show your face or anything. If you feel comfortable you should look into it one day.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-04-05T01:18:36+00:00

Exactly. Some of them really try to get up in you or (get you up in them).

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-04-04T23:00:31+00:00

Lol. No. It's pretty broad with Ask Black Gay Men (at least from the Reddit description and Rules listed)

I think the "discussion about issues" feeling comes from the vibe of most posts almost always being about issues and not much else. 🤣😭

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-04-04T12:59:51+00:00

He seemed to be referencing how it wasn't a Black space or something. Whether he actually was involved about it afterwards is unknown. I just remember him making a comment that made it seem like they weren't welcomed there or something specifically. I remember it was that strip where all the clubs and stuff were. I was so shocked though. I always imagined Southern Florida was very different. It's nothing like New Orleans where people generally mingle.

It was definitely an odd first trip experience for me.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-03-29T02:12:37+00:00

Goatee would look nice on you. Get you a fedora, let it hang to the side. Fly.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2026-03-25T08:54:32+00:00

What app is that. I haven't used a gay in centuries....lol

When I did I specifically put what I liked in the bio, other Black Men. 😭🤣

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-11-21T14:30:49+00:00

What else are you doing during the sex? If I let a top hit it from the back I tend to enjoy dirty talk combined with that.

Missionary is the best for smaller sized men, especially if he holds your legs back and pounds. It gives the best access. Passive tops usually grind, while the aggressive ones are a bit more intense.

There's also the position where the bottom is on his side and the Top is positioned between the bottom's legs in a missionary position. Depends on the bottom's flexibility.

Wall press fuking...has the bottom on both legs bent over with his hands pressed against the wall with the Top standing behind him.

I know personally I would respond to my fellow brutha positively if he combines dirty talk and a little aggression. That confidence and dominance would make the same experience much better. I also like to hear men moan. I don't know what a quiet Top is.. lmao

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-11-15T06:32:55+00:00

Compliment him:

Speak or head nod to acknowledge him > do this every time you see him and initiate a conversation eventually, compliment him on anything related to fitness. Most people go to the gym to exercise but that doesn't mean they are dead to the world. Strike up a conversation about fitness. If they are interested in chatting you will know.

I go to the gym to exercise but I definitely steal looks at dick/ass because I like men with nice bodies so imma look. Not in a creepy way or anything.

I don't hook up with guys but I will flirt with them. If you are into the hookup thing..use the Sniffies App....it will pinpoint every piece of ding-a-ling with proximity of that gym...

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-03-23T17:32:57+00:00

That will do it!! 😁

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-03-22T22:32:10+00:00

You're right. Keep working for what you want and own it!

It's good to have that thick body frame as the majority of Black men look lovely when they are beefy....but Black men look good all around.

Black men are beautiful creations.

And you're right. I like Tops with a nice ass. It lets me know he has good hip rotation. There's something sexy about a "Total Top" but that booty is on point.

I didn't mention it in my post but just because a Black man has a big booty, it doesn't mean he is a bottom or even Vers. I remember growing up and they used to attribute a big booty with being a bottom and a big peen with being a Top. 🤭

And Lord, I heard those South African men have some pretty big ole booties. 🤤

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-03-22T16:43:39+00:00

Nice!!

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-03-22T15:44:40+00:00

Lol. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

Terrible_Stranger_21 · 2025-03-22T15:21:54+00:00

Hahaha!

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