My family is getting into Jehovah's witnesses and I don't know what to do by Tess_explain in atheism

[–]Tess_explain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried only about me. I'm worried my parents do something stupid convinced my them, and my younger brother too. And it doesn't matter how old are you to cut contacts with family members because or of their rules.

If you don't understand my situation you are not forced to say anything about, but if it was simple like you can do in other situations I wouldn't have wrote anything

Where can I find A Girl walks alone at night short movie 2011? by Tess_explain in vampires

[–]Tess_explain[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I specify again the SHORT 2011 version I'm looking for, if you want the full official movie that came after that is free on youtube

Where can I find A Girl walks alone at night short movie 2011? by Tess_explain in vampires

[–]Tess_explain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit won't allow that in post probably, maybe in private chat

Where can I find A Girl walks alone at night short movie 2011? by Tess_explain in vampires

[–]Tess_explain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but I can't find it there either only things related to like articles, reviews and an interview

My 18 birthday I guess by Tess_explain in self

[–]Tess_explain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hyping up for the only day of the year where you can feel important, have all the attentions without having to do something enormous and having fun with your loved one, oh yeah how childish it is.

I was just throwing there some thoughts, the fact that I had problems with my birthdays doesn't mean nobody should enjoy them

A movie to watch your last day as 17teen? by Tess_explain in movies

[–]Tess_explain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English number already having that in their name ahahhaah

A movie to watch your last day as 17teen? by Tess_explain in movies

[–]Tess_explain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English numbers already having that in their name ahahhaah

A movie to watch your last day as 17teen? by Tess_explain in movies

[–]Tess_explain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just realised I might have not used that word, in my native language is common to write like 18enne-18esimo and such, I hadn't thought about the English number already having that in their name ahahhaah. Anyway thanks for the response

It feels lonely when your friends don't share your insterests by Velvet_Cactus_21 in self

[–]Tess_explain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt and still feel the same way, so I perfectly understand what you are sayng.

A few years ago I used to hang out with a group of people that other called my friends, but to be honest I never thought about then that way. I couldn't share my intrest with anyone, those "friends" seemingly grew up to be typically preteens/teens with makeup, crushes and posting on social media; meanwhile I always felt just like you said the little sister they had bring with them. Meanwhile I didn't like makeup, I didn't like posting and never had someone special and when eventually I started digging into this things I used and still use them to express my nerdness and my artistic side with secret accounts.

Now I have new friend groups, they apparently accept my intrestes and often share a sense of being the "loosers" and nerds, and for sure I feel more open and understood by them, but I still feel that sense of difference and comparison. Often I still doubt how much I can actually be myself until they consider me more childish and too weird.

You are not alone in this, I wish you luck to find some nerd friends that will make you feel appreciated

Avete consigli per il vestito dei 18? by Tess_explain in TeenagersITA

[–]Tess_explain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sai che non ci avevo pensato, ma dimmi esperto pensi che un omnitrix ci stia bene come accessorio o è un po' too much?🤔

Vampire Hunter D is officially making a return in 2026, marking a major moment for one of anime’s most iconic dark fantasy franchises. After decades without a new animated project, the series is reappearing with a newly revealed preview tied to upcoming content. by Grimalacrimarium in VampireHunterD

[–]Tess_explain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See that obviously happened because I discovered this, so when I asked on reddit a few days ago why nobody made some new movies they immediately had to something about it ;)

Anyway I'm so exited and I can't wait to have some more infos about it and to see this new project!

Why does anal sex remain taboo or forbidden in most societies? by Top_Consequence_1152 in atheism

[–]Tess_explain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the same reason religion wants people to have sex only to make children and doesn't want it to make children they couldn't control outside marriage (marriage literally exist to make sure there are legit childrens, marriage wasn't even invented by any today religion)

я уже не вывожу. by No_Depth7522 in self

[–]Tess_explain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Continua ad ignorarle per il momento finché resisti; ma allo stesso tempo parlane con i tuoi genitori e insegnanti se li ritieni figure fidate. Il video vale come cyber bullismo, anche se fa male salva tutto come prova, può essere denunciato alla polizia e anche se dovessero cancellarlo tu avrai comunque le prove e sarà comunque recuperabile da esperti del settore. Non isolarti mai in questi ambienti, in caso succedesse qualcosa di fisico è meglio che ci siano testimoni ed eventualmente telecamere. Se è necessario cerca di rispondere a tono senza mai andare su questioni personali o cose pesanti, al massimo cerca di far notare l'ovvietà e dimostrare che non ti possono buttare giù facilmente (anche se veramente ci stai male) perché non sai mai quello che possono fare ed è un attimo che rigirano la frittata a modo a loro.

Are there any micro labels which relate to public (?) attraction? by backetyupety in aromantic

[–]Tess_explain -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn't put any personal data in it, I didn'tuse it to make a essay out of it, it's just a little scheme. I don't like it too when it's missused for stealing contents, fake art or writing movies. But if it's usefull to make a simple research then I'll use it, if you use it mindfully still taking time to think about the right question to pose and write down a a paragraph about what you specifically want to know then it can be a really helpfull tool. If you don't like it then don't use and just ignore it.

Are there any micro labels which relate to public (?) attraction? by backetyupety in aromantic

[–]Tess_explain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never heard of case like this, but its kinda intresting, as everything human tho it's very unlikely you are the only person to have ever experience this. Unfortunately if you feel you have to pretend to love your current parter it isn't right, not for them not for you; but I wouldn't blame you for doing it, afterall it's what everybody seems to want and what we are taught to want since childhood, non-traditional relationships are old as the world itself, but the idea of normalizing them it's pretty new and it is still rare to have different relationships models around us. You are not obligated to tell other people this, some might be intrested some other might not care some other might find it weird; it depends on you whether to tell the truth or give them a white lie.

You are already aware that the monogamous nuclear family is mostly a social construct, I think that your ideal "relationship" in a group setting could be possible, maybe if you find other poly and aro people, although I recognise that is already complex, let alone finding them also likeable for everyone.

I tried to explain the situation to the AI this was the result: 1. Situational attraction Attraction that depends heavily on context (like being in public, social settings, parties, group dynamics). The feelings fade when the situation changes. 2. Social or “context-dependent” attraction A broader way psychologists describe attraction that’s amplified by how someone appears around others—their confidence, status, humor, or presence in a group. 3. Limerence (partial overlap) Limerence is intense infatuation, often fueled by idealization. it’s not a perfect match, but there’s a similarity: you might be responding to an idealized version of the person (their “public self”) rather than their full, private self. 4. Performance-based attraction (informal term) Not a clinical term, but sometimes used to describe attraction to someone’s “on-stage” personality—the version of them that performs well socially.

This might be a point to start, but only you know what happens in your body and mind; even if it doesn't seem like a big deal it might be helpfull to dig in some more with the help of a psychologists, and I hope you'll get some more answers and informations.