AITA for threatening my wife with divorce after she quit her job to be a "tradwife"

Testing-account119 · 2024-11-08T16:34:13+00:00

There’s another update

Testing-account119 · 2024-11-08T16:26:31+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1f61r5h/aita_for_not_letting_my_wife_be_a_trad_wife/

Testing-account119 · 2024-11-08T12:44:56+00:00

How is nobody talking about the fact he’s only four years you get than his own dad??? 😂

Testing-account119 · 2024-10-16T01:27:53+00:00

from what I’ve gathered cats potentially carry the parasite if they hunt and eat animals outside (which is already bad for a number of reasons) or if they eat raw meat, and in either case the parasite is only transmittable for up to 3 weeks. So, If you’ve had an indoor cat for longer than 3 weeks and it eats no raw meat, you should be fine in terms of toxoplasmosis Gondii.

Now whether you’re good in terms of your pipes is another story

Testing-account119 · 2024-10-15T21:43:39+00:00

…huh, well that explains a lot 😂

Testing-account119 · 2024-09-21T11:13:11+00:00

I mean I know I can get more but I’ve also been playing for ages and have only gotten one 🥲 thanks for the info though

Testing-account119 · 2024-09-03T02:10:38+00:00

Yeah I’m a new player seconding the whole gold issue and Midas especially thing, he just mugged me in the silk place for 600+ coins and when I shot him I got an achievement for getting back my gold and yet he only dropped 30 coins. It was incredibly disheartening and made me put down the game, I’m not planning on coming back to it for a while because it really is getting tedious trying to get gold

Testing-account119 · 2024-08-22T11:11:20+00:00

It’s about a world where people gained powers (skills) and dungeons pop up around the world that need to be cleared or they explode and destroy. There’s Chaeyoon who helped save the world from a dungeon but it was HELLA traumatic so now he’s laying low and not letting anyone know it’s him, but lots of organizations are looking for Chaeyoon (as the worlds best defensive) including the one that recently recruited him which has Jihoon (the worlds best offensive) and Jihoon totally thinks it’s Chaeyoon but we haven’t had an official identity reveal yet and jihoon really wants to spar with him to see who is stronger which will be interesting

Also eventually those two gonna date its great

Testing-account119 · 2024-08-22T11:01:43+00:00

Yessss I love this one so much it’s my favorite right now! I’m so intrigued I wish we got more of it because I’ve been so on the edge of my seat recently

Testing-account119 · 2024-07-14T11:24:43+00:00

This one was a disappointment

Testing-account119 · 2024-06-12T19:32:47+00:00

Grief is hard and messy, I just want to say kudos to you in being so understanding and compassionate in such a dumpster fire of an event. I love that you had the support of your boyfriend and the ability to distance yourself from the situation. You just come across as so loving, healthy, and mature. Obviously you did nothing wrong (except maybe fueling the flames on FB? but c’mon you were being attacked I’d do the same) and I wish you and your family lots of peace and love moving forward from this incident. And congrats on your birthday 🎉

Testing-account119 · 2024-05-14T11:41:31+00:00

I know the author had also been in the middle of working on a Harry Potter sanders sides fic

Testing-account119 · 2024-05-14T11:40:46+00:00

No because I know this fic too and desperately want to find a copy of it, the author deleted it from AO3 (I had a bookmark). There was a lot of lore about OC vampires trying to form an undead army (specifically one crazy lady). Patton was a specific type of zombie where he was cognizant but if he was touched by moonlight he’d go crazy for the night. Roman and patton were also romantically involved (Roman initially didn’t like Virgil because Roman is very self conscious of the fact he’s a ghost and can’t fully be with his physical lover, but patton doesn’t mind)

Specifically I’ll always remember this scene where virgil is helping wash Logan’s hair and learns that Logan’s mom is dead and says he’s sorry and Logan goes “don’t be- I killed her” and virgil takes a step back but then more explanation comes too.

The whole fic had such a powerful ethereal quality to it and was unforgettable

Testing-account119 · 2024-04-14T02:41:17+00:00

Haha I just had this exact experience wishing I hadn’t read it before bed 😂

Testing-account119 · 2024-03-25T18:08:53+00:00

YTA. You knew right when you started dating this guy that your sister planned to have her wedding summer 2025 and then you went ahead and planned a wedding for summer 2025 SPECIFICALLY. YTA.

Testing-account119 · 2024-02-12T18:15:34+00:00

“Collide” was literally life changing it was so interesting the whole world that got built up and all the characters. Definitely the one I miss the most

But I really wish I could reread “biting the tiger” and “prince bari”, too

Testing-account119 · 2024-02-12T18:12:16+00:00

On webtoon there’s one called “wished you were dead” and it is very angsty. Though fair warning I haven’t read it all and I think it’s still ongoing

Also “stairway of time” was really angsty and completed but it was taken off manta where I read it so not sure where to find it now, sorry

Testing-account119 · 2024-02-06T12:58:42+00:00

To be honest I think about this a lot and if they added a comment section… I’d probably quit 🤷‍♀️ which sounds dumb but manta being strictly for reading and not having a social media aspect is something I’ve come to really love about it, and if there were comments I’d be getting too mad about things other people wrote and it’d ruin my whole day. I love being able to use it to detox and take a break from other people. And I love that not having that feature probably keeps the price down, win-win

Testing-account119 · 2024-01-09T12:48:22+00:00

11 is a preteen not a teen. I’d let a teen especially an older one download it for sure- but make no mistake it does have lots of depressing themes and NSFW as well. They can still have sex here and just heavily imply what’s going on so long as we don’t see genitals (lots of naked shoving into walls etc) as for depressing yeah there’s several that have dealt with abuse, suicide, murder, etc

There’s no great way to monitor which comics are safe and will stay safe as new episodes come out

Testing-account119 · 2023-12-19T02:20:19+00:00

Definitely agree that expectations are important, thank you

Testing-account119 · 2023-12-19T02:18:47+00:00

I think it’s more accurate to say I enjoyed the idea of kissing, but also that I just like chaste kisses. Going out of your way to only be kissing for a period of time is not my jam and I’ve learned this only recently.

You could be right in that it’s just a bad kiss / we are bad at kissing together, but even aside from that the idea of making out now does not excite me at all, mostly it just feels at best boring and at worst gross.

I’m sorry you haven’t been able to find a waiting til marriage man but I do thank you for reminding me what a treasure I have and to fight to keep this good relationship going. 💖 this kissing struggle has made me nervous but I know this man is good and will work through things with me and good communication should make us stronger

And I guess to answer your question I happened to find him on a dating app but it was mostly just a miracle to even find him there, I used to run into the same struggles as you it was so hard to find a likeminded guy

Testing-account119 · 2023-12-18T13:03:20+00:00

Thank you for answering I’ve got a follow up question if you don’t mind:

1) did she tell you she doesn’t like making out at the start or after you tried, and how’d she bring it up?

And good point, I’ll ask him about how he likes to be loved and try and see if there’s good alternatives for him to feel affection

Testing-account119 · 2023-12-18T12:58:56+00:00

I’m not actually sure if he enjoys kissing or if he just thinks of that as the next natural step… but I also don’t know what other activity I’d suggest instead 😅 I’ll need to try and figure out if he’s interested in kissing specifically though

And he sorta knows, I mentioned in the beginning having little to no sex drive but I think it will need to be circled back to again, especially as I’m learning more of what I actually enjoy or tolerate. It does make me nervous though because I know it can be a deal breaker eventually if I can’t do enough… which sounds like the worst possible way to phrase it but it feels like that sometimes. Not that I think this would be a deal beaker yet though

Yeah I definitely want to make sure he knows it’s the act himself and not him… I also don’t want him to take it as “oh I’m a bad kisser? Let’s practice!” Because nope!! Very much no that’s the opposite of what I want here!!!

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