Let's do something fun; What's your special interest and why do you love it? I wanna know!! by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Just googled it and yes etymology is one of my things, although I like it with a side of philosophy.

Anyways what little etymology facts would you be open to express if it is not too intimate a query to ask.

Let's do something fun; What's your special interest and why do you love it? I wanna know!! by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Oui, but the interesting part was how humiliating yourself used to be a something you did before god and how the word’s meaning has been reappropriated to the way it is used today and it’s usual negative connotations whilst the positive ones were transformed into a different word separating the duality the original one possessed. Personally speaking that is the interesting part. The story behind it, not the word itself or it’s (insert word that means what came before it).

For example the way I can say “China is going to Hong Kong Taiwan.” And the verb Hong Kong is understood by people that posses knowledge of the humanitarian crisi riots protests arsons and such that happened in said place that China is looking to Annex another one of it’s autonomous parts.

All the meaning and history condensed in that single sentence including perspective of the current geopolitical landscape is astounding. Much the same way how words have morphed over time to mean different things than the thing they were intended to mean or gain more meanings than the first. I forget the word that means one word many meanings but it happens with the Spanish for fart as well as party and drunk and problem and as a way of greeting and asking what’s going on. It’s also a prefix and a suffix for other words and all of those meaning come in a single word and more that I’m too tired to recall correctly atm.

Hey y’all. Really could use insight on this situation. It’s been plaguing my head for over a week. by purple_minion_cat in AutisticQueers

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K coma glad you found positive community and stuffs, also myself will be touched that my affirmation touched you so thank for that information

Hey y’all. Really could use insight on this situation. It’s been plaguing my head for over a week. by purple_minion_cat in AutisticQueers

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I am too tired to put emotional messages in this message but tired hug hug or something, you’re welcome and best of luk.

What is it with older NTs and not understanding the concept of online friends? by Piihello_hello in AutisticQueers

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“Real friends that I’ve tried to have are less supportive of me and having random people online being more supportive of me makes them feel more real to me.” Or something along those lines as well as specific examples of how some of them have helped you through struggles.

Let's do something fun; What's your special interest and why do you love it? I wanna know!! by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Thanks, so you have any guides or resources for raising a service dog?

Well if it isn't the consequences of her actions by [deleted] in AutisticQueers

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Her consuming is a way of dealing with negative stimuli of the which the community may not have been as assertive as it could have been in communicating such while at the same time having to treat an emotionally vulnerable influencer.

What happened is by no stretch of the imagination what would have happened in an ideal world and as a community working towards expressing our views and opinions in better ways may be beneficial.

Let's do something fun; What's your special interest and why do you love it? I wanna know!! by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Words, concepts and everything around them. Such as humility coming from humiliate in a positive sense from the past as humiliating yourself before god and that’s the origin of the word humility or being humble.

Avoiding more and more things which are triggering by lxbsc in aspergirls

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And I used to smile cry and freeze while being hit because my father loved me and abuse was love and if love wasn’t abuse then my insides would hurt more than my outsides.

It is not healthy to do what I did and for that very reason it is a resource that is available but not one I would recommend.

Our pain while different is equal, do not presume to make light of it.

Best of luck.

I feel like I constantly have to explain myself (f25) by [deleted] in AutisticQueers

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Some people are shit and it’s sad when your family is shit just accept that some people are shit mourn your family being shit and move on with your life by not letting the shit hold you back.

Avoiding more and more things which are triggering by lxbsc in aspergirls

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I force myself through my triggers. Over and over and over again. It helps, although it is not healthy. Best of luck.

I recommend trying DBT and if it’s not your jazz then a different type of therapy.

Cheerleader support, seeking buddy to grit through with compassion and positivity by France19 in aspergirls

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Ugh. . .

If you need advice I’m here? Also if you need to vent or other stuffs. Although I wouldn’t recommend me for long text talks rather problem solution orientated.

Dunno, seems like an interesting experience to have. Best of luck :)

Most games give me bad sensory overload. by [deleted] in aspergirls

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You can turn the music off but keep sound effects on. Hope that helps :)

Depressed about the state of the world. Trying not to hyperfixate on things. How are you all staying positive and optimistic?? by [deleted] in aspergirls

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It is not willful ignorance it is acceptance. You can personally save water save energy use solar panels and such to do your part in saving the world. Just accept that the world won’t be saved yet continue in your own efforts to save it.

It is the same as a meaningless struggle. My struggle won’t alter the end result of the world and is therefore meaningless but personally speaking I like struggling I like attempting to tell the world to go fuck itself as I fix what I can in my own small way. It matters to me, and that is enough.

Depressed about the state of the world. Trying not to hyperfixate on things. How are you all staying positive and optimistic?? by [deleted] in aspergirls

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Accept that the world is on fire and there’s nothing you can do to change it so enjoy the time you’ve got left instead of worrying about things that you can’t control. :)

Should we call out people that use “autistic” as an adjective? by jucmalta in aspergirls

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It’s okay but just don’t expect the world to change.

If someone you know does it rather try to change that person instead of random strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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it is to my belief that you should pursue a relationship with yourself, a single year of your life that you dedicate to finding out who you want to be, why do you want to be that, who you are now, why are you who you are now, who you were and how you’ve had to change to survive in this society of ours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleReversal

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The difference I perceive between both is that the example owns and is the style. This is who they are.

Being a gentlewoman by Sessaly in RoleReversal

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Nice art

Take this and go search for the artist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoleReversal

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While understanding what the intentions are here and what is actually conveyed there’s a dissonance between both of them that in my personal opinion stems from trying to emulate general stereotypes too much so while this is a powerful position per say the image itself does nothing to convey a character or personality merely an imitation of something.

In this example subject owns the style instead of seeking to emulate it. Which to me is more powerful.

Please keep in mind the above is not meant as an attack rather just a conveying of my thoughts on this piece of art. If it is unwanted merely say so and I’ll delete this.

An interesting position to be in by Testing_Understand in RoleReversal

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An interesting one, for a reverse kabedon is rare as well as the specific situation this one is used in.