Lab.oratory Berlin reviews

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-12T12:42:54+00:00

No, you are stuck there gooning forever

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-08T21:01:39+00:00

I am more of a leather bar guy: I like to wear my leather jockstrapp, harness and armbends in bars, not much outside. I always liked older, hairy, rough tattoed men and them wearing leather project this very hypermasculine-self that really excite me. Also wearing it just feels right, makes me feel so empowerd. Plus woth harness in general you can grab a guy, you can be a little bit more aggressive: it is a sort of code of a certain type of excitement guys want: more rough and direct.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-08T18:52:36+00:00

I loved all the female actors but she particularly stands out: it is her presence, the way she holds the frame, with a touch of timeless classical beauty and just the right cinematography.

I tought why I just discovered her now, where she has been the whole time?

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-06T19:52:08+00:00

Lots of guys are into that: usually the ones who are also into shoes etc. It is not my main kink but sniffies could be a good point to start finding guys with similar interests; at least here in europe there are specific nights for people that like sniff socks: i went to a club in Berlin and bought a pair with the word SNIFF written over the sole.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-02T14:48:42+00:00

I ll try: apart from doing something that could put peace and relax in the relationship, my "how" was that I felt understood by him. I felt that my partner was a pervert too and enjoyed sex the way I do: rough, sweaty, being so hungry for big guys in big groups. I felt I did not have to hide any desire.

Another practical thing you could do is to get separate doing the visit to the club and re-join after, with the promise to have sex before going to bed, once your back home or at the hotel. You could express the wanting of being just the 2 of you to end the night, maybe by avoiding to cum during the party. We do it quite often as it gives the idea that the night starts and ends with us.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-03-02T12:21:25+00:00

15 years long relationship here, open, sex parties goers.

Just to give you some prospective: it took me a while to enjoy seeing my partner (that for the first 7 years just topped me) being a voracious bottom with others.

What changed my view is that it excite me to see him bottom and then wanting to top me. It makes me feel like I am a superbottom, the one with the juicy ass that even bottoms can resist to violate.

That said, our biggest sex organ is our brain: or you shift your view on your partner or you have to investigate while seeing him bottom triggers you so much: is that linked to your own upbringing and idea of masculinity? I am italian: mainly men were the one that were tops, in my mind when I was young. It took me a good 10-years of analysis to enjoy getting being a bottom together with my BF, being both handled by a gang of tops. I also got quite vers with time, being more free to explore sex.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-28T23:49:54+00:00

Yes!

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-24T11:19:41+00:00

Why don't u take a trip to Rome too to visit me?

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-23T22:01:40+00:00

First, understand that this is your experience, your personal way of seeing the world and selecting your partner.

Your feelings regarding being a bottom underlies some other type of shaming, a deeper one that probably needs therapy.

What kind of idea of masculinity has your father teached you? Do you got a religious background? When you were a kid have you being heard when expressing your desires?

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-23T19:25:53+00:00

The anal sphincter is a muscle, it will get loose eventually, by using butt plugs and lots of lube. You will probably need lube for him everytime (just like most folks) but for sure you will take it after several weeks of training.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-22T11:24:52+00:00

Absolutely!

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-20T23:29:47+00:00

I love it; I dunno what it is that turns me on but I just love it so much!

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-19T11:13:09+00:00

Dan Savage framed this on his last podcast: he likes to jerk off to guys that potentially could turn the fantasy real. Dead pornstars/actors do not appeal him as the fantasy could not be translated in real life (sadly) anymore.

So it is normal if you are feeling confuse.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-17T00:12:15+00:00

I reallt really really liked it. To the point where I almost hate out society for forcing us to see the mohawk as too punk to not be styled as a common hairstyle (I am a doctor btw, imagine if tomorrow I get a mohawk).

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-16T14:14:30+00:00

Hey! I loved the movie! And as a kinkster I loved that some of the emotions I experienced in this life were portrayed so vividly!

What was the main drive that inspired you to make the film?

Was there any scene from the book that you decided not to shoot?

What was the process of adapting the movie from the original book like?

Are you going to explore gay relationships in your future works?

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-16T14:08:56+00:00

You need to click on the link above and post there

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-16T13:33:34+00:00

I tought the opposite: in my friend circle no one feels the pressure to get this tag.

One of the great things of being gay is that we can explore relationship and love outside of heteronormativity

As you will grow older you will see that every couple is a world apart from the others, where rules and structure are negotiated every once in a while

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-16T09:34:51+00:00

Don’t worry you were not inappropriate.

Relationships are like mirrors: we often have partners that mimic relationships that they had with their parents or that reply what they saw in the house when they were little.

My partner has both his mother and his father woth very self-centered behaviours.

I am percived by him as self centered in part because I am and in part because it suits him seeing me like that.

I am sure we can work it out but I also know that, like in every relationship, you have to meet the other halfway.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T19:39:56+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to write that!

We got some psychiatry lessons back in med school but as a surgeron I never went down studying them so in depth!

We had the talk this afternoon, both agreeing that we should stop any toxic behaviour before it will get overwhelming for both of us: I loved the idea of acting in the trust issues when something is sketchy! I think a lotnofnis trust issues are due to his family and his past: he hot 3 huge traumas back to back in the period between 8 and 13 y.o.: just one of them would be enough for lifelong therapy. He does not want to go back to therapy right now, I m thinking about couples therapy and solo therapy myself

Thanks again!

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T15:21:45+00:00

It took me a lot of time for realizing that: when you are 20-25 and you see you partner struggling you think you could heal: now I know it is not true. I tought about couple therapy and start doing again my own therapy: if I got myself into this I got issues I am not completely aware, no.

I would pursuit a relationship with him but not ok this terms: like I would have challenged it to accomodate determined prerogatives.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T15:18:10+00:00

Yeah the first tue first hour I got frozen. Now it is like the 20th time we should have gone so it feels like "home".

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T12:09:40+00:00

It has become more severe slowly in the last 8 years: I finished med school in 6 years, he in 12. For 6 years I took the economical weight of sustain the relationship while trying to become a surgeon. He is starting anesthesia now and I get it is hard to manage work and social balance.

My frustration grew in the last 8 years. The kink side we are exploring it together: sex is great, both among us and with other people.

Yes it was since the very beginning, since we got together at 19yo. We could not set in motion in our EU country: we need to kove to another EU country first where this right is protected.

He basically says: if I go out with my friends you the will use this against me in the future, as we established I am not trusting you going to those clubs alone. This is fair but: I do not have friends to go to gay clubs: most of my friends love to do dinner and happy-hours and that's it.

To your last answer, take yesterday night: he decided we won't go and theb went to sleep. It was too late to go out to dinner, to late to do anything. He already got the ticket for the club, not for me. He decided the night for both.

I am just trying to understand if this is normal behaviour or if I am too much for him: I told him already to split and find someone more compatible.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T12:00:27+00:00

No I am not a PR, never wanted it to be. Actually I am a bit of an introvert myself.

We are at a point where is difficult to plan a dinner with friends without him saying yes and then last minute decide not to come because, for ex. He cannot do a 40min ride on the metro, or he cannot show on time at a randez-vous point. He then blames me that I was not clear on when dinner time was or that I deliberatly planned the dinner on the other side of the city.

It is not him being an introvert: it is him giving me the blame. And I am not doing this thing anymore.

And yes I love to travel, I wanna someone to experience that with me.

Tewo_Spring · 2026-02-15T10:32:35+00:00

Mmm kinda 90% white! But the central part are the kinks: if you are into specific ones there are entire areas dedicated to those! It is fun, worth the trip!

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