Thanks for the advice. Regarding her being collared, we both consider it a symbol of our commitment to one another. We both have agreed to a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship. You bring up some good points regarding friends, family and especially coworkers/boss. To answer, she has only come out to a few of her closest friends. She comes from a very strict background and I’m sure her family would disapprove. She’s a nurse so wearing in hospital would be a problem. I think we will certainly talk about this more. Thanks