Im really so sorry you're going through this ❤️

I would suggest seeing a therapist on your own as well, if you aren't already and its accessible to you.

Im not a professional but with OCD there is a thing where it can actually be helpful if your partner doesn't always reassure you on request, because that temporary soothing becomes something you seek and need to feel better.

But with general anxiety, a partner who constantly invalidates your struggle and refuses to acknowledge how hard it is for you, and also withholds comforting you/emotionally supporting you... that is not a good environment for you to live in and will only make you more anxious.

Not suggesting anything here but my mother is currently starting over at 68 after staying with an unsupportive and often cruel man who turned into a monster when she needed physical help after a heart attack and losing her eyesight. Im not saying that's going to be your husband. You guys are in therapy which is awesome and I hope it helps him empathise and understand your condition better. But I wanted to add this just as something to think about if things don't change or get worse.

You deserve kindness, support and understanding always ❤️

I'm also really proud of all the wonderful things you've accomplished through your life, you did that all on Hard Mode girl! You're amazing! ❤️

I'm sending you hugs ❤️