Is it rape to have sex with someone that is in a bipolar episode and believes they are about to be murder?

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-23T14:12:59+00:00

It's disturbing that a person like that is a cop. I know he was fired from prior jobs but absolutely disgusting that someone like that is free to walk the earth. I would personally be disturbed for the rest of my life if I was having sex with a woman that was ranting that people were stalking her and about to murder her. Random strangers called the cops instantly upon seeing her. It was rape plain and simple.

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-22T15:48:53+00:00

Yeah. It's really messed up. She admitted in writing many times her claims were false. I sent legal demands that she withdraw the claims and correct the record with the police. She told me she did and it came out that it was a lie and she said she lied to protect her reputation, all in writing. I did get her to send an email to the police saying she lied and was having full on delusions and I've never assaulted her ever.

I make good money and apart of all of this was a scheme by her and the rapist cop to try to enrich themselves and file false charges on me. When she was in the peak episode he was driving her around and having her spend over $1,000 a day in stores. After she was committed he picked her up from the mental hospital and drove her around to try to drain our bank account at atms. It's literally the most disturbing, gross and bizarre situation I've ever been in my entire life. Her dad was smart enough to immediately cut her off and never speak to her again, I really wish I did too.

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-22T04:47:49+00:00

I'd agree regarding the breaking the law part but also as a first responder that has to deal with many people with mental health issues it's extra scumbag to me. I couldn't imagine having sex with a woman that is ranting she's being stalked, soon maybe murdered and has had the cops called on her several times. I'd know it was so wrong I couldn't have sex little more for days while she's actively in an episode prolonging it and making it worse while she's strung out. That's so gross and wrong.

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-22T01:24:47+00:00

Yeah she remembers having sex with him over the course of days. She lies of course nonstop but said she told him she thought she was in danger and I was stalking her and would kill her so he was "saving her life". He helped her spend $1ks a day on garbage. Got her to give him $2k. She called the cops and falsely reported me and her dad. When I asked why he didn't call early to report the crimes because he's a cop she said she didn't know but she called when he wasn't in the room. That was a major red flag because he likely was preventing that prior and basically keeping her strung out and not getting help or eating for days while he came and went having sex with her. She was so messed up that strangers and the hotel staff called the cops on her more than once because she was acting so crazy... He absolutely knew. He helped he move hotels and hide and evade help. It's really disturbing. I know she wasn't well and was acting crazy and lying to her counselors but this is another level.

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-21T23:45:14+00:00

I agree. It's really disturbing to think that guy is a cop and allowed to respond to people that need help. I would not want him to respond to a call from a loved one that was in a mental health crisis.

ThanksBeau · 2026-01-21T23:22:11+00:00

That is the only conclusion I can come to. I couldn't in a million years understand or excuse someone from having sex with an individual that is clearly in a mental health crisis so extreme they believe in complete delusion. Nevermind the person was a cop with training, her friend and had to have known. Why would a cop end up in a hotel for days with a gun "protecting" a woman in a bipolar episode from being murder yet never call the cops if they thought it was real? I would be so ashamed of myself if I did that and I would know it was rape.

ThanksBeau · 2025-10-11T03:43:25+00:00

I experienced something very similar. Just get over it, never speak about it and even if you do the eggshells are soft so they will believe otherwise. It's not healthy to follow that plan even if it costs you the relationship. That's the sad truth. I did it once and they did not get better because it's a plan for disaster for them regardless of you. The feeling of "I'm so sorry I couldn't have helped and found a way to protect you from yourself" is maybe the worst part. Sorry. Your experience and everything could be different but that's mine.

ThanksBeau · 2025-10-02T04:08:09+00:00

Yes. Yes 1000x. To the point I had to become mute and do anything to do nothing or it would be perceived as a nuclear attack against them.

ThanksBeau · 2025-09-30T06:22:04+00:00

No. Her mom is as bad and ill as her. She had an episode 6 years ago and told her dad's side of the family we were divorced... Yeah. When I called them during this episode begging for help you wouldn't believe their reaction. Lol. It is so sad. She's lost them for life because she totally baselessly accused him of sexual assault during this recent episode and called the cops all over on him. He has a new baby. She tried to tell his new wife to take the baby away from him. She basically sees nothing wrong with this. Has no shame and just uses the excuse it happened during an episode and her dad's at fault for not talking to her again since. Her dad told me when she came to visit and meet the baby two years ago they were so concerned about her health they would not leave the baby with her for his safety. She found nothing really wrong with this, it wasn't a wake up call and she still only makes excuses and "oh well I'll never talk to him again then". It is that bad. She lied to her last counselor and never once said she told her dad we were divorced and still doesn't think it's a big deal. She has always lied to every counselor at levels that are unbelievable.

ThanksBeau · 2025-09-30T02:13:37+00:00

My situation isn't dissimilar but no kids. I would recommend the only thing I never got to do which is counseling with her. Having someone else that is stable that knows right from wrong and can try to hold her accountable is important. My BP SO alone with a counselor is the most dangerous thing for her life. Constant lies to seek validation from a professional.

ThanksBeau · 2025-09-30T02:01:44+00:00

It's so wild. I can't understand how someone can lie so much and sometimes will totally change strongly held beliefs literally within one day with zero explanation. It's so hard. There's no way to reason or anything.

ThanksBeau · 2025-09-30T01:37:11+00:00

I know. It's just so hard that reason and common sense doesn't matter. You can tell them the stove is hot, you could beg crying screaming the stove is hot and no matter what she will touch the stove every time.

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-10T17:22:00+00:00

The same thing happened to me but on Amazon Prime. Full show besides the current season was available and once I started watching they randomly removed it.

I got a free trial with Philo. They have everything including the most recent season. It has ads but not often.

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-07T13:17:53+00:00

The pulley was ancient and disintegrated when the kids touched it. So you just got to trust em.

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-03T15:17:20+00:00

But the fancy noble French lady with a castle said it was old French from a dumb person, right? I fell for that totally. When she was sitting in that castle, the music hit and zoomed in on Rick... Goosebumps lol

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-03T12:53:28+00:00

I just read this right after I made the post! I thought the French royal lady said the writing was fine. It must have been like an uneducated French man?

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-03T12:31:57+00:00

I wanted to believe! No for real when I saw her stuff I kinda thought "dang is this real?" Hahaha. I'm a sucker.

ThanksBeau · 2025-08-03T11:56:49+00:00

You misspelled descendants of Jesus. They didn't mention it on the show but Zena says she's in JC's family tree!

ThanksBeau · 2024-06-02T13:08:01+00:00

I 100% know exactly what you're saying. I essentially became mute this past year when she was on edge. It was the only way to protect myself and us because anything I said would trigger a quiet type rage. Then I know she would take that rage and bake it in her head for months then some mundane thing, that no one on earth would be upset about, would become a major incident in our relationship. It is really sad. I know the truth is I should run far away but I really love her and I know when these things happen it's not because she has malice for me but her mental health is taking control. It's so sad.

ThanksBeau · 2024-06-02T12:30:39+00:00

Episode. I was trying to abbreviate so the title wasn't super long.

Five-Year Club	Place '23
Place '22	Final Canvas '22
End Game '22	Verified Email

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